Im nervous about bleeding during my first time haveing sex. What should i do ?!
Question: Im nervous about bleeding during my first time haveing sex!. What should i do !?
Okay im at the time of my life where i am ready to have sex, buttt im nervous about bleeding casue my hyme hasnt broked yet!.!. what should i do!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Kalie R!.,
Honey that is just an old "Wives Tale" about the bleeding part!. Then again, it also depends upon the boy/man's size to take into consideration!. Just slip a package of wipes into your purse, along with a panty liner, and some lubricant of some sort (to put on him) such as vaseline, if he has big feet that is, just in case!. I did not bleed during my first time!. Niether did my BFFs!! So, this is just an old wives tale that just keeps being past around!.Unless your period is due!. When a woman's period is due, having sex can bring on her period a little faster!. Even if the hymen gets broken you do not neccessarily bleed!. Just ask him to be very gentle going in!. If he's not then he's not a gentleman, and I would cancel!. Smile!! Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honey that is just an old "Wives Tale" about the bleeding part!. Then again, it also depends upon the boy/man's size to take into consideration!. Just slip a package of wipes into your purse, along with a panty liner, and some lubricant of some sort (to put on him) such as vaseline, if he has big feet that is, just in case!. I did not bleed during my first time!. Niether did my BFFs!! So, this is just an old wives tale that just keeps being past around!.Unless your period is due!. When a woman's period is due, having sex can bring on her period a little faster!. Even if the hymen gets broken you do not neccessarily bleed!. Just ask him to be very gentle going in!. If he's not then he's not a gentleman, and I would cancel!. Smile!! Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't bleed that much durring your first time!. Only a couple of drops, you'll feel sore more than anything!. And depending on how old you are and what you've done in your life, you might not even have a hyme!. I was born without one and alot of girls pop theirs on their own with a tampon!. Athletes tend to pop their own as well without realizing it!. Many of my friends have broken theirs on their bikes by accident!. So don't worry too much about it, just make sure it's the right decision!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Waite until your marriage night!.
That special guy (the groom a/k/a husband) will show extreem patience with you because you are his wife and how you feel would matter greatly to him!.
Now, if you just find a loose cannon!.!.!.he won't care because he has no "investment" in your honor!.
Think it over!. You can't return to being a virgin for any future husband if you take this step!. It's best to avoid putting yourself in a situation whereby you may feel shame in having a 'prior history' of fornication!.
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That special guy (the groom a/k/a husband) will show extreem patience with you because you are his wife and how you feel would matter greatly to him!.
Now, if you just find a loose cannon!.!.!.he won't care because he has no "investment" in your honor!.
Think it over!. You can't return to being a virgin for any future husband if you take this step!. It's best to avoid putting yourself in a situation whereby you may feel shame in having a 'prior history' of fornication!.
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Don't have sex yet and you won't be so nervous!.
"haveing", "hyme"!?!? You don't sound not old enough or mature enough!. Just because you have the capability to get turned on enough to be penetrated does not mean you are emotionally ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
"haveing", "hyme"!?!? You don't sound not old enough or mature enough!. Just because you have the capability to get turned on enough to be penetrated does not mean you are emotionally ready!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That's the least of your worries!. You should be more worried about whether or not you're having a great time and you are actually ready for this big step into adulthood!.
If you're really worried about it, find a guy with a small penis!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you're really worried about it, find a guy with a small penis!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well not all females bleed, i didn't so i wasn't worried that much it just hurts a bit but it will eventually go away no biggie, just in case you do i heard stories that its just a little not like a period so dont worry about messing up the sheets or your partner!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
since you say that your hymen hasnt broken yet, im assuming you dont use tampons!. as for the bleeding!. its not like you have your period when you pop your cherry!. mine was a very small amount but all girls are different
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what should you do !?
you sound a bit young!. why not
wait until you have matured enough that you wont be embarrassed to bleed a little in the presence of the man you love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you sound a bit young!. why not
wait until you have matured enough that you wont be embarrassed to bleed a little in the presence of the man you love!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well i didn't bleed very much at all!.!.!.!. it is not a lot of blood!.!.!.!. it might be just a few spots on ur undies!.!.!.!. don't pick a guy with a big penis though!.!.!.!. the first time always kinda hurts!.!.!.!. so try to find a guy with 6in or lessWww@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't sound like you're really old enough for sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You sound about 12 years old! Are you sure you are ready!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
During your first time having sex, you normally don't bleed much!. Just lightly!. If you want to break your hymen, try sticking a tampon inside before you have sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com