What can i do im so depressed?!


Question: What can i do im so depressed!?
My friend has been going out with this girl for about 6 months now even though he knew i was in love with her before he asked her out!. i am still in love with her know and it really hurts me when i see them together!. i self harm a lot as well because i am so miserable!. please help meWww@Answer-Health@Com


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dude, i think u deserve her!. he just got to her first!. U REALLY DESERVE HER!. DONT BEAT URSELF UP!!!!!!! GET IT TOGETHER MAN! there are many girls out there that will make your day:)

plzzzzzz stop hurting urself!. ITS NOT UR FAULT!. he got to her first!. CALM, and move on!. she might not be the right girl!. but she may be!. i think u should try other girls!.

if they are in a tight relationship, then find another girl!. if they are just dating, and other people can ask her out!. GO FOR IT!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, is it really Love, if it is one-sided!?
2nd: you may like her, but she's obviously not into you!.
Standing in the way of both her happiness, and your friend's happiness, makes you the bad guy!. Just put it in your mind that this isn't the end of the world, it isn't even something to stress over!. You were into her, and she wasn't into you!. That's all!. It isn't extremely personal, and not something you should be harming yourself over!. By harming yourself, all you are saying is that your misery is more important than your happiness!. You're also prolonging the misery, because every time you see the scars you've inflicted, you're reminded of why you hurt yourself in the first place!. Besides, while stressing over some girl that is already taken, you're probably missing out on a chance to meet another girl that might be into you!. This isn't the end all, be all to your world!. Just move on!. While you can say "if he's my friend, he should have never asked her out"- well, if you were his friend, you wouldn't want him to be alone and miserable just to satisfy your longing for a girl that just wasn't into you that way!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

First of all, STOP SELF HARMING!!! I have a friend who is doing the same thing and I told her that it's very unhealthy behaviour, and I'm telling you the same thing!. Next, I think you should talk things out with this friend--if he really is a friend--and see if you can work things out!. Does this girl know that you're in love with her!? That's important too!. It's possible that he feels the same way you do about this girl!. Unfortunately, this is all the advice I can give you, not having been in a relationship myself yet!. However, I would advise you to talk to a counsellor about this if it's not working out!. Otherwise, look on the bright side of life, and please don't be miserable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't be so hard on yourself, it's not your fault, it's your friend for betraying u like that!.
Just calm down and drop this friendship between u and that guy, and try to find a way to speak to this girl and let her get to know u a little better and how u feel towards her, don't forget to tell her that the other guy is/was ur friend so she doesn't freak out about two guys fighting over her!.
Also you should give yourself a break hang out with ur other friends ignoring that certain 'friend' and try talking to someone u really trust about this, and be more open; there might be someone out there better than that girl you've admired!.
Hope this helped and good luck! ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

First off you need to confront both and tell them how you feel!. Don't just confront him do both!. Explain to her and him whats been going on in your life and how him dating her hurts you!. This does not mean however that they will break up but maybe they can lay off a bit and let you feel better!. And if this doesn't work then you should talk to a doctor about getting you on some tempory anti depressants!. i know how you feel sweety, I've been there many times!. I used to do the same things too but it never solved my problem until I confronted them and got some professional help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That's a terrible way to feel you need to go to the doctors they can help by arranging someone for you to talk to or prescribe medication to help, if he was that much of a friend he wouldn't have done this maybe you could explain how you are feeling!. Try not to feel like this there are plenty more girls out there, im sure when the time is right you will find someone else!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well that aint a true friend thats for sure!.

1!. **** him up!. or just dont talk to him
2!.smoke a joint!.
3!. there are more girls out there so dont trip!. btw if she liked you she would have said no to him you know, but there are more girls and that guy is not your true friend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

LISTEN!! how can you call that guy a friend if he knew that you really liked that girl and then he askes her out! that is just plain wrong!!!
You have to remember that there are plenty more girls out there not just the one and you have to forgot about her!. Get your mind off her and get a hobby or something!. Go out with TRUE! friends not friends like that!!.!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh my lord!.!.!.
how!.!.!. confusing!?
He is NOT going to kill himself unless he's that idiotic!.
And don't hurt yourself!. It's not going to help at all in the situation!.
Well, talk to your freind about it and tell him how she feels!.
I hope this helps a bitWww@Answer-Health@Com

To speak with a trained Volunteer Teen Counselor:
Call (714) New-Teen or (714)639-8336 between 5 pm & 9 pmWww@Answer-Health@Com

go find another girl!. you will get over it!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.


hopefully!. lol!.


ok no that wasn't funny!. ok but ya find something to get your mind off of it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to your friend!. and maybe ask her if she wanted to go to a dance or somethin together!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

beat the **** outa the mother ****** and cut!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that is not a healthy thing to do ,please consult a psychiatrist to feel betterWww@Answer-Health@Com

You need therapy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Get another girl!. There's plenty out there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Smoke A BluntWww@Answer-Health@Com

get him jealousWww@Answer-Health@Com





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