A HUGE Lack of Confidence.?!


Question: A HUGE Lack of Confidence!.!?
Well im 15, female and currently in year 11 at secondary school!. I do have a minority of close friends but apart from that i have no one!. I used to be part of quite a big social group but we all went our separate ways and i think it was for the best!.
I do care what people think of me, so i don't tend to stand out from the crowd; i try not to get noticed!.
I fear being asked a question in class and discussing personal experiences!. I get embarrassed about everything and often go red in the face!. I hate being a school!. Tbh im not thick and in my GCSE's are predicted high grade B/A's!. I often hae to do speaking and listening assessments within different subjects which are totally unfair on those who have different abilities and not drama/presenting etc!.
I am a completely different person outside school in the sense of socializing as i tend to go out often but only with my two best friends!.

I would just appreciate ANY type of help, for example help in building my confidence etc!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Honey, don't care about what other people think, care about what you think of yourself!
Think to yourself now, what can you do to overcome this lack of confidence, look at the situation and think what have you or the people around you done wrong!?
Don't be afraid of putting your hand up in class or anything like that cause sweetheart, you know what they say "you'll never know if you don't try!"
Be confident of who you are and what you have achieved!.!.!.I'm sure babes that people admire you for the fantastic score you got in GCSE's!. Have a go be confident for a change you'll never know how it'll end up!

XX XX Just remember no-one is perfect! :):):):):):)Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's called being an introvert - there's nothing wrong with this!. Some people like being around others while some like to be left alone!.

With that being said, socializing becomes less difficult as you participate in it more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I had that same exact problem too!. I had to realize that eventaully I would have to stand up for myself and stop being so emabrresed about myself!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

It sounds like you just need to let loose a little and have some fun girl!
You would be amazed at what it will do to boost that confidence or lack thereof :)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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