Please Please help me :(?!
Question: Please Please help me :(!?
Well im quite a big girl (in size) like 14-16 and like this guy who i have known a while but we are just aquaintinces(soz cant spell) but i was wondering would he be put off by my size!? :(Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Well, from what I see, I don't consider that "quite a big girl"
I'm 6'2" and currently a size 26, weighing around 340!. I topped out at a size 32, at 380 pounds!. However, the only thing that has really stopped me from dating the guys I want to date is my own self-confidence!.
When I learned to love myself for myself, I found I attracted more quality men, and even at my largest, did not have much difficulty having men be interested in me!. Yes, size sometimes matters, but if that's the deciding factor for a man, you don't want him anyway!.
When I was 17, I was a size 16, and I was considered small!. So sizes don't matter at all!. I may wear a 26 but I look like I wear maybe an 18 because of how I carry myself!. Standing up taller, and proud, has made a world of difference, not only in my appearance, but in the way others approach me!.
I can tell you though, if your thoughts when approaching the guy are focused on the little chub you might have, and not on how awesome you are, and why you like him, he's not going to go for ya!. Why!? Because men, whether they realize it or not, can read the discomfort and displeasure in oneself on your face, and it's an immediate turn off on the subconscious level!. Men with insecurities give off similar vibes to women!.
Diets are okay but what I find works a lot better is just controlling portions and upping physical activity!. Dropping junk food is good but you have to be careful about diets that are out there!. You always want to be balance!. Make sure to get lots of veggies and fruits and fiber, with a little protein so you can build up lean muscle!. It's lean muscle that will burn the fat faster, and keep it off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm 6'2" and currently a size 26, weighing around 340!. I topped out at a size 32, at 380 pounds!. However, the only thing that has really stopped me from dating the guys I want to date is my own self-confidence!.
When I learned to love myself for myself, I found I attracted more quality men, and even at my largest, did not have much difficulty having men be interested in me!. Yes, size sometimes matters, but if that's the deciding factor for a man, you don't want him anyway!.
When I was 17, I was a size 16, and I was considered small!. So sizes don't matter at all!. I may wear a 26 but I look like I wear maybe an 18 because of how I carry myself!. Standing up taller, and proud, has made a world of difference, not only in my appearance, but in the way others approach me!.
I can tell you though, if your thoughts when approaching the guy are focused on the little chub you might have, and not on how awesome you are, and why you like him, he's not going to go for ya!. Why!? Because men, whether they realize it or not, can read the discomfort and displeasure in oneself on your face, and it's an immediate turn off on the subconscious level!. Men with insecurities give off similar vibes to women!.
Diets are okay but what I find works a lot better is just controlling portions and upping physical activity!. Dropping junk food is good but you have to be careful about diets that are out there!. You always want to be balance!. Make sure to get lots of veggies and fruits and fiber, with a little protein so you can build up lean muscle!. It's lean muscle that will burn the fat faster, and keep it off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think a person would be put off with the way you look at yourself, putting yourself down!. Size, shape, looks change and really don't matter what matters is who you are!. What type of person are you!? Have you ever thought some guy was fine then saw him light up a cig or saw his personality and he ended up being a jerk!? Then he was not so fine anymore!?
Be who you are and if there is something YOU don't like about you then try to change it!. It would be ashame if someone missed getting to know you cuz they were that shallow of a human!.
On the other hand, be friends and get to know him!. He might fall for you and then you may find that he's a dork!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be who you are and if there is something YOU don't like about you then try to change it!. It would be ashame if someone missed getting to know you cuz they were that shallow of a human!.
On the other hand, be friends and get to know him!. He might fall for you and then you may find that he's a dork!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, corny as it sounds, maybe he'll grow to like you as a person and size won't matter!. Maybe he even likes bigger girls!. It's hard to answer these types of things!.
But you know, you'll never know if he likes you or not unless you talk to him!. Be nice, don't scare him away, be his friend and see what happens; it can't hurt to try!.
It's good your on a diet!. You gotta exercise too though, eh!?
Try getting into cardio, it's the fastest way to lose weight: http://exercise!.about!.com/od/cardioworko!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But you know, you'll never know if he likes you or not unless you talk to him!. Be nice, don't scare him away, be his friend and see what happens; it can't hurt to try!.
It's good your on a diet!. You gotta exercise too though, eh!?
Try getting into cardio, it's the fastest way to lose weight: http://exercise!.about!.com/od/cardioworko!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If a guy likes you for you it shouldn't matter if you were a 6 or a 16!.
But sadly some guys are that sad that they will only be seen with a stick girl!. And any guy like that just ain't worth it in my book!.
However, there is a plus to losing weight and that's you gain so much more confidence that you'll prob find yourself fancying other guys too so you might change your mind about him all together in the long run!
Hope things work out the way you want them too xWww@Answer-Health@Com
But sadly some guys are that sad that they will only be seen with a stick girl!. And any guy like that just ain't worth it in my book!.
However, there is a plus to losing weight and that's you gain so much more confidence that you'll prob find yourself fancying other guys too so you might change your mind about him all together in the long run!
Hope things work out the way you want them too xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Well; I think that most guys that I know are into the skinny chick or at least 1-5 size girls!. But the guys you know may be different I think that you are trying to make a change so thats a step!. If he doesnt accept you for who you are than to tell you the truth he really isnt worth it ! (: Www@Answer-Health@Com
Who cares about your weight lol I say eat what you want when you want it!!lol well it works for me lol cus I never seem to put on weight! But I bet you have great boobs lol so flaunt them about, and if you your 'acquaintances' then you'll be fine!. Just flirt flirt flirt
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Its hard 2 say!! all guys are diff!!!
like some guys like big boobs and some like small!!
It wouldnt put me off!!! Theres only one way to find out Www@Answer-Health@Com
like some guys like big boobs and some like small!!
It wouldnt put me off!!! Theres only one way to find out Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you are confident then he will see that and find you sexy for it!Www@Answer-Health@Com