Is it normal to feel guilty after orgasm?!
Question: Is it normal to feel guilty after orgasm!?
I'm a virgin, but I masturbate and mess around with my boyfriend!. Whenever I climax, whether going solo or with my boyfriend, I feel really guilty!. I don't feel guilty during the activities, but when I orgasm, I am struck with this overwhelming sense of shame and guilt!. Is this normal!? Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Some families particularly those who are often church going people have what is regarded by them as a wholesome attitude towards anything of a sexual nature and this is the way for them to rear their children - there is nothing wrong with saving yourself before marriage but there is also nothing wrong with feeling the pleasurable feelings that orgasm brings to you!. For you this is normal to feel guilt - its not normal for everyone and hopefully you will come to realise that what you do and how you feel are part of a great overall understanding that comes to you as you grow and mature in your life right up to old age
Congrats on saving yourself for marriage and if masturbation is a part of helping to keep things this way until you commit then good for you - its better this way than bringing a child into a relationship that may or may not continue
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Congrats on saving yourself for marriage and if masturbation is a part of helping to keep things this way until you commit then good for you - its better this way than bringing a child into a relationship that may or may not continue
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Yes, that is normal, I believe it's because it's driven into us by society and perhaps other factors in our environment to feel that way about sexual things!. I assure you though, there's nothing to feel guilty about!. Hope everything works out for you and you learn to overcome it!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You probably feel guilty b/c you think what you are doing is wrong, but it is not!. You are beginning to explore your sexuality in normal and healthy ways and it feels good!. Don't be ashamed of it!. I admire you for being a virgin and hope you stay that way until you are sure you're ready!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is fairly common, most people carry some moral 'baggage', given to them by parents/ schools/ etc!. Just relax and remind yourself what you are doing is normal and healthy, emotionally and physically!.Www@Answer-Health@Com