This guy is driving me to an eating disorder!! Please help!?!
Question: This guy is driving me to an eating disorder!! Please help!!?
There is this guy who I was friends with benefits with for months because he had a "busy schedule" but i said I couldnt do it anymore!. He asked me to be his girlfriend and intoduced me to his friends as his girlfriend but then he started to freak out about this new label and said that he felt pressure now to hang out w/ his "girlfriend"
He told me that he wanted space but also said that we should have sex anymore and we didnt talk for a week!. When i called him, he said that he needs to get his grades up to get into law school and he just need to focus on that!. He said that he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but also really doesnt want to lose me!. He asked if we could still hang out and be friends but I said that it would be really hard for me to just be friends, at least right now!. He was really upset that I said that we really werent friends before cause i guess he thought we were, but we really didnt hang out that much!. He sounded so sad on the phone and kept saying he doesnt want to lose me and says that he gets attached with the people he has sex with!. I dont want to waste any more emotion on him because he has really hurt me but I also want to try to be friends!.
Should I give him a chance!? Do you think he is being being genuine and really wants to be friends or does he just think he will get the "benefits" again (which he wont)!? My friends keep saying that if I just be cool around him, and not be so "available" to him he will want me back, like now that he cant have me, he will want me even more!? I cant eat because of him, I feel like something is wrong with me and my body which is why he doesnt want to be with me!. Please help, I cant starve myself anymore!Www@Answer-Health@Com
He told me that he wanted space but also said that we should have sex anymore and we didnt talk for a week!. When i called him, he said that he needs to get his grades up to get into law school and he just need to focus on that!. He said that he doesnt want a girlfriend right now but also really doesnt want to lose me!. He asked if we could still hang out and be friends but I said that it would be really hard for me to just be friends, at least right now!. He was really upset that I said that we really werent friends before cause i guess he thought we were, but we really didnt hang out that much!. He sounded so sad on the phone and kept saying he doesnt want to lose me and says that he gets attached with the people he has sex with!. I dont want to waste any more emotion on him because he has really hurt me but I also want to try to be friends!.
Should I give him a chance!? Do you think he is being being genuine and really wants to be friends or does he just think he will get the "benefits" again (which he wont)!? My friends keep saying that if I just be cool around him, and not be so "available" to him he will want me back, like now that he cant have me, he will want me even more!? I cant eat because of him, I feel like something is wrong with me and my body which is why he doesnt want to be with me!. Please help, I cant starve myself anymore!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
This guy should make a great lawyer because he already had the art of manipulation down pat!. He used you for months and now he's yanking your chain again!. Don't let him! Find yourself a new man and this time keep your knees together for a while until you see which way the wind is really blowing!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
just move on hes not a good guy I been their done that you need to move on find someone who wants you to be their girlfriend and drop this loser you can find better hes messing with you feelings he did it once he will do it againWww@Answer-Health@Com
Go and have a girls night out, show him you don't need him, and for god's sake someone go and buy this poor girl a steak :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get rid of that guy all together! He sounds completely self-centered!. You deserve better!. Don't put your body through that crap for some loser - or any guy for that matter!. Go eat some pizza and hang out with your girlfriends!. A great guy will come along before you even know it!. And he'll want to be a real friend and a real boyfriend!Www@Answer-Health@Com