Selfharming: Whats wrong with it?!


Question: Selfharming: Whats wrong with it!?
Is there actauly anything wrong with self harming, apart from the obvious, what do you recon!?
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People who don't know anyone who have experienced it, and people that haven't experienced it themselves don't understand it!. If you've never experienced severe heartbreak or depression, if your life is plush and easy, you'd think it is stupid, when really it is a way to distract a broken heart!.

It is terrible, though!. Terribly sad, is what it really is!. People are misunderstood!. They don't need another counselor that gets paid by the hour to listen to their problems!. They need someone to listen, someone to care, not to judge, preach, or give them advice!. Some friend to just hold them and say "I will always be here for you when you need me!. I wish you'd stop!. If you ever want help, I'm here!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

I was wondering the exact same thing the other day!. Just because it's not something everyone does, why does that make it wrong!? However you can actually cause yourself nerve damage by self harming!. And i guess because when you accidentally cut yourself it hurts and isn't a pleasant thing people that don't self harm can't understand why others deliberately do this to themselves!.

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To all the people that say it's just for attention, and that self harmers aren't dealing with their problems but rather hiding in a corner, obviously haven't felt the inner turmoil and frustration that leads someone to self harm!. It's a way of survival, often the only way a person has learned to deal with difficult emotions!. You can't say why people do it because you are not them, everyones reason is different but there are much simpler ways of getting attention!. People that self harm need support not criticism and i hope that when you need support people are there for you and don't criticise you, the way you do people that help themselves the only way they know and self harm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It depends upon what form of self harming!. Overdosing has a cumulative effect on your body - which means that you may get to a stage when one more episode may threaten your life!. Cutting produces scarring which at some point in your life may be embarrassing for you or cause people to make inaccurate judgements about you!. All forms may be distressing for the people who love you!. It is likely to attract negative attitudes from professional carers - whose code of ethics places them as promoters of healthy behaviours, and therefore cannot be seen to condone harmful and destructive behaviours!. If you want to discount all these factors - then yes, its harmless!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's seen as wrong simply because it is!
Having said that, I'm a former self-harmer and I know about the urge to do it!.

It's not good, though!.!.!. it's dangerous, it scars and it indicated deep rooted mental health problems!.

If you are a self-harmer I'd advise you to get help and try not to find a way to promote it or view it as a good thing!.!.!. cause you'll only do yourself more harm (mentally/physically/psychologically) in the long run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It signals that there is either something wrong in the mind or the body!. It is a form of self hating!. We are beings that were created out of Gods great love, for the purpose of being loved!. That is how He designed us!. Since He loves us so much He would never want you to hurt yourself!. Satan on the other hand hates God and everything that He created!. He wants to destroy us!. He will pick and nag at your subconscious and make you miserable without you even knowing why it is that you feel so bad!. So you need to ask yourself, "Am I going to seek the one who loves me and allow Him to teach me to love myself or follow the one who only wants to destroy me!?" Www@Answer-Health@Com

People selfharm because they have a deep seated problem not because they enjoy it, it's a kind of realese for them but the real problem needs to be sorted to make them stop!.
the reason it is such a terrible thing is some selfharmers have killed themselves by accident and the scars are there for life !.
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Because it's a stupid thing to do!.
Only stupid people do it!. Instead of dealing with their problems, they cower in a corner and scratch themselves, as if it's helping!.
It doesn't progress anything in any way, it's just a pathetic waste of time!.

I used to do it, and it's just bizarre when you realise you're not benefiting anything!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Self harming my ar*e ! Sitting in a corner scratching yourself with a pin, jesus if your going to self harm, have the decency to do it properly with style, bomb, gun, anaconda,petrol endless opportunities!. But no all you want is attention and people are daft enough to give it to you!. You make me puke !Www@Answer-Health@Com

cause it hurts!.!.!.
and it doesnt help anything!.!.!.
if you had a fight with your friend, would cutting yourself make anything better!?
no!.!.!. my friend used to but she stopped!.!.!. thank god!.!.!.
she started to lose her friends except the ones that stuck by her and treid to get her help!.!.!. she really regrets it now and you will too if you keep it up!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It is not good for you and your loved ones, what do you mean apart from the obvious!? are you crazy!? Www@Answer-Health@Com

What's wrong with it!?
What's the point of it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because its a sign of someone who needs help so people do freak out a bit at it I find its much more fun to harm othersWww@Answer-Health@Com

Are you really so stupid!? It's because it's HARMING!

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Oops! I guess someone doesn't like the truth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If thats what turns you on then go ahead!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Then again - What's right with it!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

what's right with itt!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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