Can someone please help me, I'm confused?!
Question: Can someone please help me, I'm confused!?
this is a little embarrassing, so people, please give me serious answers!. I've always been attracted to girls!. I've never really been attracted to guys!. When I was little I had a few times when I was nervous about bing gay because I live with my mom and two sisters, and people used to tell me it would make me gay, but I never really had gay feelings!. A couple of months ago, I had a dream that i kissed a guy, and know ive been really confused about everything!. I'm only 13, so is this normal!. Sometimes I know feel attracted to my best friend, whos a guy!.!.!.!.!.is this all normal!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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It seems you are comfortable about your sexuality, I would not worry about it!. It is normally what you are going through!. Think about it in development you have relationships with guys first (not sexually), then the girls
I am not trying to be funny that is the way things are in human development!. I will tell you something!.!.!.!.and you will have a good laugh!.!.!. When I was 28 a dreamt I slept with my best friend (A guy)!. I am 40 now!. I have one son, I have had two sexual relationships with women since then!. I could have got into a homosexual relationship once!.!.just within a year!.!.!.!.I turned it down because I do not like the thought of being with men!. Lastly!.!.!.coming from a house that has a lot of women in it is a blessing to you!. Here's why!.!.!.when you start dating
the women will love you because you will treat them with respect and as an equal!. So to answer you question, are you normal!.!.!.!.YES!.
Are turning into a blazing homosexual!.!.!.!.NO!.
Are you O!.K!? well I think you answered that!.!.!.!.!.you seem to be O!.K!.!.!.!.!.O!.K!.!.!.!.
P!.S!. I am not the greatest christian but!.!.!.!.take your time and enjoy your teenage years!. Wait until marriage before sex it will save you allot of trouble!.!.!.!.God Bless!.
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I am not trying to be funny that is the way things are in human development!. I will tell you something!.!.!.!.and you will have a good laugh!.!.!. When I was 28 a dreamt I slept with my best friend (A guy)!. I am 40 now!. I have one son, I have had two sexual relationships with women since then!. I could have got into a homosexual relationship once!.!.just within a year!.!.!.!.I turned it down because I do not like the thought of being with men!. Lastly!.!.!.coming from a house that has a lot of women in it is a blessing to you!. Here's why!.!.!.when you start dating
the women will love you because you will treat them with respect and as an equal!. So to answer you question, are you normal!.!.!.!.YES!.
Are turning into a blazing homosexual!.!.!.!.NO!.
Are you O!.K!? well I think you answered that!.!.!.!.!.you seem to be O!.K!.!.!.!.!.O!.K!.!.!.!.
P!.S!. I am not the greatest christian but!.!.!.!.take your time and enjoy your teenage years!. Wait until marriage before sex it will save you allot of trouble!.!.!.!.God Bless!.
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Realize that your dreams are a mirror!. You say you lived with your mom and sisters!. Did they ever kiss you!? You are the guy that you kissed in your dream!. In your dream, you took on the personality of your mother or your sisters!. You became confused when you woke up because you thought it was you that was doing the kissing and you are identifying with that and you are now attracted to this guy because of that!. Does this guy look like you!? Is it normal!? For the guy to look like you yes, but to be attracted to him is even more normal at 13!. But to have erotic feelings for him, No!. What can you do!? I don't know!. But what I would do is try to keep my feelings separate from them and do not act on them!. Do not say anything about your feelings, they're yours, they will pass and you will be happy that your mother and your sister taught you a few things!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Totally, you're hormones at your age are making you crazy!. Sometimes kissing(lips or elsewhere) in a dream is actually a desire to get to know someone better, or really, to be more like them or look more like the area you kissed!. You might want to go to borders & get a dream interpretation book!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey i'm 13 too!.!.!.!.i guess u were too scared or nervous bout bein gay dat u had a dream about it trust me not all dreams come true!.!.!.!.!.!.dont be confused ur strait !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but being attracted to ur frend is not normal!!! i guess u considered or tot about it dat way bcoz of the dream!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.just follow ur heart n instincts!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.think about wat i said a lil carefully!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well, its not actually normal, but a guy can never ever b a gay unless and until he has had a physical relationship with another guy!. i hope u understand, so u know evrything, what u've done n i hope its nothing like dat, dat u had a relationship like dat!. apart frum this, u sed u had a dream, so i think dat u r really tensed about this and u keep on thinking about this, so whatever u think comes in ur dreams(dats the thing so dont worry about d dream)!. just dont strain urself by thinking about this all d time and try being away from ur friend until u feel u r alrite!. i m srry if i sed sumthin' rong!. thnx, bye and take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you've always been attracted to girls I wouldn't say your gay!.!. Why did people say it would make you become gay because you live with three females!? So does my brother and he's straight, so don't let them people are just trying to put things in your head!.
Of course it's normal, it's only a dream, many people have dreams like that! I think all these occurances have played on your mind and tricked you into thinking you are attracted to your best friend, but in actual fact you probably aren't!.
But if you do ever feel confused - don't worry!. It's all normal, you don't know how many times I've heard this before, I promise it's really normal, especially at your age (:
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Of course it's normal, it's only a dream, many people have dreams like that! I think all these occurances have played on your mind and tricked you into thinking you are attracted to your best friend, but in actual fact you probably aren't!.
But if you do ever feel confused - don't worry!. It's all normal, you don't know how many times I've heard this before, I promise it's really normal, especially at your age (:
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