My happiest day, her worst?!
Question: My happiest day, her worst!?
Yesterday, my bf proposed to me!. We have been together for 5 years, so this was long waited for and I have never been happier!. A few hours later, my best friend called me saying her older brother, (they were so close) had passed away in a car accident!. What do I say or do!? I feel so torn, my happiest day is the worst day of her life! I don't know what to feel, and I feel bad for even wearing my ring because it makes me happy!. Should I take it off for a while!? We are going to be together forever, and I will have years to show it off, I could do that!. But is that strange of me!? I just don't know how to handle this! Please, no rude comments!. Just tell me what you would do in this situation!? Should I not wear it to his funeral!? Plz help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Although this is not the ideal proposal story for you, you have every right to be excited about your engagement! This is unfortunate, but you have the right to be excited for yourself just as she has the right to be upset about what happened to her!. Wear your ring and celebrate your engagement, but be there for her and be willing to let your engagement take a back seat when you're with her!. She'll undoubtedly want to talk about something to take her mind off of her terrible situation, and she's excited for you although she's in too much pain to show it now!. When you're with her, wear your ring and be happy, but be sympathetic to her needs and feelings and be respectful of her situation!. You can be there for her and empathize without ignoring your important life change!Www@Answer-Health@Com
What terrible timing of circumstances! Nothing will change what happened to her brother, but you, on the other hand, have had the most joyous occasion to celebrate!. Grieve with your friend, but don't deny yourself the joy at getting an engagement ring!. Wear it anyway, but share your joy with her after she has had time to mourn!. Congratulations!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
tell her everything will be ok,and pray for her at night!. be happy for yourself but still comfort her cuz at this time she really needs it :( horrible situation btwWww@Answer-Health@Com
u should feel good and bad you should feel bad 4 her and good 4 you because u just have got like the happiest thing happen to u and she has had almost the worst Www@Answer-Health@Com
Be with your friend, wear your ring!. When the moment is lightened a little you can tell her!. It might be a small happy escape from the current situation she is in!. It might take a day or two for that moment to arise, but I think you will know it when it comes!. She may even notice and ask about the ring!. It is completely ok to be happy and joyous for you and with others around you!. You might want to contain your joyous feelings around your friend in need right now and by that I mean maybe gushing and talking nonstop about wedding plans etc!.!.!. might not be totally appropriate!. But is she wants to talk about it, that is okay!. Her mood will most likely be okay one minute and terribly depressed the next!. She's on a rollercoaster ride of emotions right now!.
Life is incredibly precious - both your moment of happiness and her sad experience proves that!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Life is incredibly precious - both your moment of happiness and her sad experience proves that!. Www@Answer-Health@Com