I'm scared to grow up?!


Question: I'm scared to grow up!?
I just turned 15 yesterday and I got this extreme worry to grow up!.
I Just don't want to, I want to stay 14 :[
Because I just don't want everything to change!.
Has anyone else felt this way before!? I an very depressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I know how you feel and I'm 57!. Someone told me not too long ago that I'm like a little girl that never grew up, so it's not all that bad to keep your pure heart!. Growing up is not that different than being a teenager, it's just all a number!.
There are more responsibilities when you grow up, but you take care of them and go on with your fun life!. You don't have to be an old "stuck in the mud" when you grow up!.
Live your life to have fun, but be responsible in it!. You should be learning that now anyway!.
Growing up does not happen overnight so don't worry about it, just live to have fun now and learn what to do in different circumstances!.
You will be ok,
GROWING UP IS NOT THAT BAD!.!.!.!.believe me!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah, I felt this way when I was your age!. Being an adult can either be a lot cooler, or a lot worse!. Depends on your actions!. Don't wait to get your license like I did, don't buy a new car (that's a bad move no matter what your age), Don't have kids until you've got a good foundation and you've been with the guy AT LEAST a couple of years!.
People keep talking about how if you don't make tons of money your life will be miserable, but its really all about how you use the money you do have!. Sorry, this turned into a monetary lecture!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am about ten years older than you are and I used feel the same way!. The fact is you are still very young and have your whole life ahead of you!. Worrying doesn't help anything it only makes you miss out on all the good times you can be creating while you worry!. So embrace life, love your friends and family, takes lots of pic!.'s to remember them and you will have a good time and when ten or twenty years pass by you can say "Look what I did!"Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah I'm 17 and 18 next year!. Everyone tells you to be responsible but you just don't want to!. My parents think I am depressed though I just don't want to get older!. I don't want to leave school and start something new but I have to and unfortunately so does everyone in this life at some point!. I remember someone saying to me do you want more responsibility and I just replied No!.

I know exactly what you are feeling!.
This song helps me sometimes

http://www!.youtube!.com/watch!?v=IVa-9TO4t!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh yeah!

Passing on some wisdom well earned!.!.!.!.!.

Things are so much different now then when I was 15, just under 30 yrs ago!. But you have to quit thinking of the what ifs and focus on the now!. Enjoy being 15, your first job, first car, etc!.!.!.!.!.!. those are big deals!. Believe me, time flys by and before you know it, you will be where I am!.

So try really hard to not worry about the future, focus on here and now!.

Take Care!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Oh my gosh!. I felt the exact same way when I turned 15 two weeks ago!.
It is scary, and there's also the pressure that you're supposed to act more maturely and all that!.
It almost seems like life's passing by too quickly, huh!? ):Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeeah i get that way also, but you just got to make the best out of everything,Www@Answer-Health@Com





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