Will my husband forgive me in time?!
Question: Will my husband forgive me in time!?
I am 25 and my husband is 28, we have been married for 4 years!. I am crazy about him in every way as is he!. About 2 months ago i made the biggest mistake of my life, i had a one night stand!.I have been under a lot of stress lately as my dad is being released from jail & wants to be part of my life(he is very dangerous) i don't want anything to do with him and i lost a baby in September!. I told my husband about it myself & he let rip at me which is understandable but said he never wants to lose me!. I have been regretting it & kicking myself over it & am doing everything to win his trust back!. He can bearly touch me anymore let alone have a proper conversation with me if is does say something to me he yells, although he still makes love to me when he feels like it!. If he cant even talk to me then why is he sleeping with me!? He is the only stable man i have in my life as my dad is very dangerous & has been in jail since i was a child & my mother died of an overdose when i was 16, so he has always been there for me and i owe him everything, i need him!. All im doing is crying i cant lose him please help me
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Answers:
Unlike the more pessimistic answer above, some people ARE capable of forgiveness, even in matters like these!. I've seen it happen!. That being said, I would say you should simply take one day at a time!. If it really looks like things aren't going to work out, don't try to be in denial!. Communication is key, particularly at a time like this!. Take care of yourself, and forgive yourself first!. (And don't do it again) *sends hugs*Www@Answer-Health@Com
A doctor told me that it takes 2 and a half years to fully get over the grief of an affair!. I don't know why!. But it seems right it has been about that long and since my husband did it and I am just about over it!. So time is what is going to heal him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He may say he forgives you,,,,but he never will!. Take my word for it!. My first wife did the same thing!. I thought I could live with it, but I was wrong!. We have been divorced many years!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need counselling and you probably will both need couple therapy!.
Go and ask your doctor for some help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Go and ask your doctor for some help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is the last place I'd look for advice!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com