I recently asked a question that I dont think people really understood!. So here is the revision!.

I keep stumbling across questions posted by young kids ages 11,12 and I cant help but find it pretty disturbing that kids this age are dating or have boyfriends already!. What I dont get is why they are so concerned with this at such a young age! When I was 11, I was still playing with barbies! Im 23 and I dont have kids but if I had a daughter and she was on this sight seeking advice about her dating life, I would be worried!. Where are these childrens parents!? Im sorry but I understand kids are curious about the opposite sex, im not talking about questions like "how does it feel to have a bf" im talking about questions like "i just broke up with my boyfriend for another boy but my friend likes this boy too and when she asks me if i like him I say no but i really do like him" -this is a question from an 11 year old girl!

I just find it crazy that girls this age are actually "dating!."Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am with ya and I am 34 with no kids!. My young cousins and friends kids know way to much and ask questions about things like sex at such a young age it makes me cringe!. My god 12 yr old girls are concerned about thier hymen breaking and whether or not they will get pregnant from oral sex!. My god they shouldnt even know what that is!!!! I am not a prude but come on do 12 yr old girls and boys really need to be doin the deed!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? NO!. they are way to young to understand what they are doing and the consequences of their actions!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Is it any wonder, then, that there are 14 year olds posting about being pregnant!?

I agree with you!. Although kids that age might define "dating" or "going out" at that age completely differently than we might conceive of it!. It could just mean that they are boyfriend and girlfriend, even though they don't even so much as talk to one another!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'm 19, and most kids when I was 11 were dating, and definately NOT playing barbies anymore!. I think it's because they don't want to be seen as kids anymore, and want to act like adults!. They weren't having sex though, but they'd kiss!.
I wouldn't worry about it too much, as long as their parents talk to them and make sure they don't do anything stupid!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I am 13 around 12 and i think that ya the dating may be a little crazy but i like to ask about my period and breast and what is happening i am emotional and to afraid to ask my mom i would like to know about my period and vagina as well as every other 11 year old were changing our bodies our minds our pads and that is why we do it Is there anything wrong with that!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

now a days you gota get in the game quick because if you dont have connections in highschool your the boy who never gets a girlfriendWww@Answer-Health@Com

u were playing with barbies/ now that is sad
get a lifeWww@Answer-Health@Com

ya i agree with you!. iam 13 and i have never had a bf before, and all my friends have and basically every girl in gr!.8 also i noticed that the gr 6 girls are dating too and i find this absolutly insane! like what do thier parents think! they must have very bad parents because i no that my parents would never let me date at such a younge age! last year there was this girl in my class and she had a bf and they kissed at the end of each day!. it was soooooooooooooo gross cause i saw it everytime! ya and the other day there was this question on Y!A and this 14 year old girl was pregnant!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

--- I beg to differ!. I think it is like the whole world has gone mad!. There was a time when a baby was a baby!. a little kid was a little kid, then a boy or a girl, and then a teenager!. --- in the early settlement of Quebec people were getting married when they were fifteen!. NOW look!. when can the baby be a baby!. when can the kid be a kid, then the boy a boy and the girl a girl, then do the teenager thing!. If a "kid" is twenty I bet most parents would be putting quite alot of pressure to have that kid leave the nest but I believe a realitic age to leave now a days would be 25!. With some where some time the kid pays rent so they get some adjustment to the real world!.
--- but you see survivors right ---
-- then the apprentice right--
-- well to listen to some proud parents talk it is LIKE well little 5 month old sammy / susan already spoke in sentences and in two weeks on ODD days--he /she is going to pre pre kindergarten pre tutorial day care And-- then on even days he / she is going to the suzukin yamahan sylven learning day care and pre-university center for exceptionally gifted boys / girls-----
--- it just doesn't seem right or fair that young people have to be so fanatical about preparng for the future-- also look at the last 12 days or so all the young people using Q a A to protest the war in the palastine!. isn't that a bit adult!?!?!?!?!?!?
----- so I think our society is stealing the youth from the youth!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's plastics' fault!. silly but true!. whatever chemical it is in plastics that makes puberty hit faster!.!.

girls and boys are developing much faster than they were when we were kids!. girls in my middle school were just getting nubs and those conic shaped boobs by 15-16!. now it seems that every 12 year old has a full set of breasts!. and as soon as they get the goods, they want to learn how to use them!.!.

also i don't recall the music being completely suggestive as it is now!.!. i mean, there was tactfully suggestive music that you might hear on the radio!.!. but now the artists are suggestive and very clear about their thoughts, and with ipods and the internet!.!. it's out there for the kids to listen to whenever they want!. and of course then they want to do what they hear and that's why you see 14 year olds trying to be sexy!.

it's kinda sad, but it's the way the world is now!.!. everything changes!. this is the norm now

face it, we're old, lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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