What can i do to stop crying everyday?!
Question: What can i do to stop crying everyday!?
i'm stressed out of school (senior year of hs) having no job (babysitting someone elses baby with no pay) and my boyfriend who seems to not care about anything, he says he cares about me only!.!.!.i love it how he cares about me!.!.but not that i'm his top priority!. he has school too and a job!.!.!.but he isnt going to school or going to work!.!.he tells me that he that he's stressing about things too!.!.but never wants to talk about it to anyone!. i mean whatever he's going thru can't be worse to what i've gone thru and going thru (going to court and going to a counsler b/c i was raped just 1 year ago) can it!? sorry to put it out there!. but i'm crying everyday!. and its not getting better at all!.!.help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I'm sorry about what happened to you!.
I hope your councelor is really involved and understands you and has constructive ways to help you!.
As far as your bf, he says you are his number one priority!.!.!.and while you are flattered by that!.!.!.!.he is not going to school or work!. So you see that as irresponsible and you might even feel pressure being his 'only priority' when you have so many other things you are dealing with!.
The thing is, is he sounds like he is also depressed!. Just because you are going through something horrendous!.!.!.!.does not mean that he can't be depressed about something less than what you are going through!. Both of you can be in a depression for your own reasons, and he probably doesn't want to add to your stress by talking to you about it!.
So what you do, is you tell your boyfriend that if you are his top priority he will act like it and be responsible!. He will go to school and to work as you are happier with him when he is productive with his life!.
Also don't watch anyone's baby for free or at all!.
Now is not the time for you to be caring for a baby, you have your own needs to tend to!.
Please make yourself your own priority right now, even if it means taking a break from your bf!.
Best wishes to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I hope your councelor is really involved and understands you and has constructive ways to help you!.
As far as your bf, he says you are his number one priority!.!.!.and while you are flattered by that!.!.!.!.he is not going to school or work!. So you see that as irresponsible and you might even feel pressure being his 'only priority' when you have so many other things you are dealing with!.
The thing is, is he sounds like he is also depressed!. Just because you are going through something horrendous!.!.!.!.does not mean that he can't be depressed about something less than what you are going through!. Both of you can be in a depression for your own reasons, and he probably doesn't want to add to your stress by talking to you about it!.
So what you do, is you tell your boyfriend that if you are his top priority he will act like it and be responsible!. He will go to school and to work as you are happier with him when he is productive with his life!.
Also don't watch anyone's baby for free or at all!.
Now is not the time for you to be caring for a baby, you have your own needs to tend to!.
Please make yourself your own priority right now, even if it means taking a break from your bf!.
Best wishes to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
im going through the same thing, but im not crying anymore!. if you want you can talk to me about how i was able to stop crying over things and calm down! Id try to tell you ways over here, but every ones different and everyone reacts differently!. But id love to help if i can!. If you want to talk leave me a message!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stop the train! You are the original "do over"!. Bag the b/f because he's an obvious loser!. Get a grip on your life and decide what you want to do, not what fits!. I'm sorry you were raped, but you have to put that behind you, not add extra baggage!. Make a goal!. Take steps to achieve that goal!. Don't let side issues stand in the way!. Losing begets losing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am sorry for what has happened i am sure things will get better time heals all wounds, you should probably talk to someone at your school about your stress you don't even have to tell them why and maybe you should see a phyciatrist or a phycologist they can probably help you more than me!. I know right now it doesn't seem like it but you will one day feel betterWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sorry to hear about your situation,,, get on some anti depressants, they really helped me through my hard times!! Get rid of the guy seems to be dragging u down more!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
don't stop looking for help and always tell a good friend whats going on with you!.
No advice is my best advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No advice is my best advice!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You are depressed!. Is your counsiler aware of that!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
go to the doctor and get prozac!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
go to sleep!. take a nap!. i always feel better after one!. =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you able to talk to your parents!? If so, please let them know how you are feeling!. They should be able to support you through this hard time!. If not, a good friend in times of need is a great comfort!.
Make an appointment with your family doctor and tell her/him what's going on!. It sounds like you may be quite severely depressed, and for good reason!. The doctor will ask you a battery of questions and diagnose your symptoms!. You may have to take antidepressants to help you feel better!. Don't be ashamed or guilty - it's far more common that you might think! Good luck and take care :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make an appointment with your family doctor and tell her/him what's going on!. It sounds like you may be quite severely depressed, and for good reason!. The doctor will ask you a battery of questions and diagnose your symptoms!. You may have to take antidepressants to help you feel better!. Don't be ashamed or guilty - it's far more common that you might think! Good luck and take care :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
First off, im sorry you were raped!. Thats horrible!. On another note, seems as though your trying to reach out for help, but you not getting it!. In this case, i would definately keep talking to a counselor!. If you dont like your current one, find one who you can confide in and let your feelings out!. If nothing seems to stop, then you might want to consider getting on medication for a season just to get you through this time of you life!. Things will get better!. I promise!. We've all been in low points, but you need to reach out to someone who will get you through it!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I understand how you feel!. I was raped and molested for a period of 5 years and both men were both family members!. It's going to take a while to get over something like what you went through!. It's still fresh in your mind!. A year is not a long time!. I understand the stress with school and everything else I could imagine!. Giving what you're going through your main focus should be on "YOU"!. Which means that you should not worry about being someone else's top priority!. Rid yourself ofunnecessaryive and stressful situations including people or things you may think you care about and you will be a big improvement!. Trust me!.
It would also help to find a friend you can talk to who can somewhat relate!. I hope you get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It would also help to find a friend you can talk to who can somewhat relate!. I hope you get better!.Www@Answer-Health@Com