This has haunted me for the past year?!
Question: This has haunted me for the past year!?
ok so in February of 2008!.
It was the second day of school, my bff and i had just started high school and so after school when were on the tram and going to visit our Primary school which is just one street behind my street!.
When we got on there was this weird guy, he sounded german!. And one older girl form my school that as on the tram with us was standing next to him and he asked her if she had a boyfriend ans stuff!.
He kept talking to us and soon allot he females where we were sitting got off!. We went to sit up the front!.
Then he followed us!. It was sitting next to me and looking down his pants!
We were so scared!. When we pushed the button he got up and so when went to the back of the tram to get off and when we got there, I turned around he saw him following us and then stopped!.
When he doors opened we got off and I was just praying that he wouldn't as well!.
He didn't but we were so scared, and I haven't told anyone accept my other friends!.
Even though nothing happened, its been haunting me since then, and every time i get on a tram alone, i don't sit alone, i sit up the front where the driver can see me and make sure theres some kids from other schools around!.
Is there anything I can do, i'm never planning on telling my parents since nothing happened, so is there anything i can do!?
thanks in advanceWww@Answer-Health@Com
It was the second day of school, my bff and i had just started high school and so after school when were on the tram and going to visit our Primary school which is just one street behind my street!.
When we got on there was this weird guy, he sounded german!. And one older girl form my school that as on the tram with us was standing next to him and he asked her if she had a boyfriend ans stuff!.
He kept talking to us and soon allot he females where we were sitting got off!. We went to sit up the front!.
Then he followed us!. It was sitting next to me and looking down his pants!
We were so scared!. When we pushed the button he got up and so when went to the back of the tram to get off and when we got there, I turned around he saw him following us and then stopped!.
When he doors opened we got off and I was just praying that he wouldn't as well!.
He didn't but we were so scared, and I haven't told anyone accept my other friends!.
Even though nothing happened, its been haunting me since then, and every time i get on a tram alone, i don't sit alone, i sit up the front where the driver can see me and make sure theres some kids from other schools around!.
Is there anything I can do, i'm never planning on telling my parents since nothing happened, so is there anything i can do!?
thanks in advanceWww@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
There are freaks out there honey, there's not much you can do!. You're doing the right thing by sitting up front!. If you're really worried, start taking a self defense class, or even buy some mace (that's what the spray is called, right!?)!. Try talking to a friend or to your bff and see if she's still feeling the same!. It's normal to feel like that!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try to travel in pairs and get you a whistle to wear around your neck, hide it under your shirt that way if something like that happens again you can blow on that whistle and it will let people know that something is going on, once you blow the whistle start screaming that the man is after you, keep blowing the whistle and screaming!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try to stay in regular crowds, you seem to have it under control!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You really need to get this off your mind so in telling your folks you are gaining their trust!. Your parents have "been there and done that"!. They are not stupid people and shouldn't be treated as such!. If you let them into your world, you will guarantee a trusting relationship with them for the future!. Give it a go! What have you got to lose!?Www@Answer-Health@Com