Is it normal to want to get caught?!
Question: Is it normal to want to get caught!?
I'm 17 years old and I live with my dad!. My mom left when I was very young, and I haven't seen her or talked to her since!. I don't have any brothers or sisters, so it's basically just me and my dad!.
About a year ago, I discovered masturbation, and I've been doing it pretty regularly since then!. I know that masturbating is completely normal and healthy, but here's my problem!. About a week ago, my dad walked in and caught me masturbating in my bedroom!. He quickly covered his eyes and apologized!. At first, I was mortified and totally ashamed!. But after he left, I suddenly felt even more excited and turned on than I was before!.
Ever since then I've been masturbating more often!. I used to keep my clothes on while I did it, but lately I've been getting completely naked and doing it in the daytime and stuff when I know my dad is still awake!. A couple times I left my door open a little bit while I did it, hoping that he would catch me!. I've even thought about doing it in the living room around the time when I know he gets home from work so that he'll catch me!.
I know I'm not attracted to my dad or anything weird like that!. It's not like I want to have sex with him (gross!), but I keep doing risky things hoping that I'll get caught again!. I get such a rush knowing that he could walk in and catch me doing it at any moment, and I keep getting disappointed when he doesn't!.
So what does this mean!?!?!? I know it's not normal to want to get caught masturbating by your parents!. Does this mean I secretly have disturbing feelings for my dad, or is it normal to get turned on when someone catches you!? Or do you think I should stop masturbating and talk to a therapist!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
About a year ago, I discovered masturbation, and I've been doing it pretty regularly since then!. I know that masturbating is completely normal and healthy, but here's my problem!. About a week ago, my dad walked in and caught me masturbating in my bedroom!. He quickly covered his eyes and apologized!. At first, I was mortified and totally ashamed!. But after he left, I suddenly felt even more excited and turned on than I was before!.
Ever since then I've been masturbating more often!. I used to keep my clothes on while I did it, but lately I've been getting completely naked and doing it in the daytime and stuff when I know my dad is still awake!. A couple times I left my door open a little bit while I did it, hoping that he would catch me!. I've even thought about doing it in the living room around the time when I know he gets home from work so that he'll catch me!.
I know I'm not attracted to my dad or anything weird like that!. It's not like I want to have sex with him (gross!), but I keep doing risky things hoping that I'll get caught again!. I get such a rush knowing that he could walk in and catch me doing it at any moment, and I keep getting disappointed when he doesn't!.
So what does this mean!?!?!? I know it's not normal to want to get caught masturbating by your parents!. Does this mean I secretly have disturbing feelings for my dad, or is it normal to get turned on when someone catches you!? Or do you think I should stop masturbating and talk to a therapist!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It is as you describe it!. You got a flush of adrenalin when caught and that excitement added to the experience!. I wouldn't say stop, because there is nothing wrong with masturbation, but it isn't fair to compromise the relationship with a parent by putting them into this very awkward position!.
Fantasy and reality are in danger of becoming reality here and due to the topic you could be storing up trouble!. You don't need a therapist - trust me!. There is nothing wrong with you!. All that happened is you got an additional high!. Lots of people like sex outdoors for the same reason!. The thrill of being caught adds to the excitement!. Then there are voyeurs who like to watch and those who like to be watched!.
Just give your dad a break though yeah :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Fantasy and reality are in danger of becoming reality here and due to the topic you could be storing up trouble!. You don't need a therapist - trust me!. There is nothing wrong with you!. All that happened is you got an additional high!. Lots of people like sex outdoors for the same reason!. The thrill of being caught adds to the excitement!. Then there are voyeurs who like to watch and those who like to be watched!.
Just give your dad a break though yeah :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your masturbation is not weird, and trying to get caught is probably just a way of increasing the excitement, and getting a greater adrenalin rush!. Perhaps instead of trying to get caught by your father, you could experiment in different ways, so your father can not get embarrassed any more!. You dont need to see a therapist or stop, just proceed in a different manner pursuing different ideas!.Www@Answer-Health@Com