Is this feeling normal for a teenager?!


Question: Is this feeling normal for a teenager!?
During Health class, we were talking about life expectancies and how it's estimated that our generation (I'm 15 right now) won't even live to 70!. And then the teacher said that we should all want to live as long as possible and be as healthy as possible!.

But then I realized I have no desire to live that long!. I can't even picture myself graduating high school, and I'm not sure I want to live past 25, at worst!.

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Answers:
I feel similarly!. I don't want to live to 70!. Seems like it'd be miserable!. I'm not sure how I feel about today or tomorrow!. I guess that's the part you might need to worry about!. Maybe you should see a therapist!. Maybe I should!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What your teacher said is pretty depressing!. I bet at 15 you cannot even imagine what you would be like at 25, 30 or even 18!. I had no idea at 15 that I'd be a parent and so happy as an adult!.

It is normal to be scared, although that is not what your saying!. It does sound like you are very depressed, for some teens that's normal!.

In your case I'd talk to some school counselors!. Find something that takes time, keeps you active and makes you happy!. Be that something like a sport, writing, or preparing for college and all the fun you can have there!. Just be smart and don't stress over how long life is, just try to find out what you can do to make it enjoyable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think once you realize what it means to actually be dead, you wouldn't feel that way!. its not like you get to float above your casket and see who comes to your funeral!.


despite how long your life is, you should live every day to the fullest so that when that day does come you can leave in peace knowing you had a good run!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my 49 yr old aunt just denied herself of a third lung transplant and passed away because she felt there was no reason to prolong death being that she had already accomplished everything in life that she had wanted to!. that was to have her 10 yr old son, Ryan!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't think that's normal!. I'm not afraid of death but I feel that although life can suck at times, we are here for a reason!. You have to do the most with the time you have and make a difference in other peoples lives!. When you're gone, the people you affect will be all that is left behind!. The more time you have, the more potential people are effected!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

No, your depressed!. How do I know!? Because I have been through the same thing!. I didn't think I would make it to my 18th birthday, somehow I did so now I just go with the flow!.

It would be different if you didn't want to get old because your scared or whatever!. But honestly, there are lots of cool things in life that you have to search for!. It just doesn't come to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i'm 15, and i get the feeling too!.

feel like i'm alone, and don't want to be here, But- it is normal, But then again it's not!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yes, u want to live because it gets better as an adult!. best years are when you are free!.!.!. hang in there, just a few more years, you will have a blast!. 25 you are just getting started!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

that's not normal and can be caused by :
-low confidence about ur self
-bad mental States
-backgrounds & family affects
i had that feeling when i moved out of my country in 17 yearsold as a little boy and that was the reason i got something like that feeling!.its been 2 years ago,now i am better
solution which worked for me:
-sit and just think what can u do and what u wanna be it might take a while,do whatever ,laugh ,cry,drink,but just know that what r u and why r u here
-count on everything you have(i dont know,but even just list down every single skill or stuff you have)
-maybe you have to break some friendships, i had a friend who made me like that,i left him so now i feel better,maybe you need a friend or gf or any possible relationship,so find it,if you think u are gonna die by tommorrow ,why dont you give it a try,"i am dead any way!"
-one more thing is that you better change ur lifestyle,i most of the time sleep late,i now play musics til early in morning sometime,i am getting good grades at collage,i was exactly like as you are now!.sorry for my bad english,i will answer you more!.email me!.
Jessica you mentioned it thanx:),it is lonely,i am still all alone by my self,but you have to know,not fear,know that someday all of us must get alone!.then you can freeup from every stupid feeling makes u like not appointed to ur life!.
CHANGE THE LIFESTYLE ,I AM TELLING U, FOR THE GOD's SAKE,ONCE U CHANGE,Feelings WILL CHANGE,WHEN YOU ARE POSITIVE,U WILL HAVE GF,BF,or ANY ONE you like!.BECAUSE PEOPLE like THE positive ONES!.its hard at first ,GIVE IT A TRY for a monthWww@Answer-Health@Com

nooooooo way!. find a girlfriend or have some fun with some friends!. wooooow!. thats kinda weird!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Thats crazy! It is NOT normal!Www@Answer-Health@Com

no that not normal at allWww@Answer-Health@Com

no !.!. not really !.
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