Do u think suicide would b the best option for me?!

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NO ! . Relax & think about the positives.

How do you know that you cannot change those problems you listed in your question?

You could console your family only if they were absolutely convinced that you were better off dead and that life inevitably meant suffering for you. Even then, it might not work.

I can think of only one way they can feel sure that you're better off dead: if they know that you have tried everything to make this death wish go away.

To make that happen, make sure they know you have seen a psychotherapist. Explore your feelings thoroughly with that therapist. You will have to give a summary of all this exploration to your friends and family.

If friends/family make suggestions of things you can try, in order to eliminate your death wish, try all their suggestions. That way, they will be less likely to feel responsible for not helping you.

If you have not been out in the world much, you should travel the world after graduating high school. Maybe there is something about your current location that is bad for you. You might discover a place on the globe where life actually works for you. Can you get a job and start saving money for this long trip?

The good news in this situation is that you have nothing to lose, because you expect to die soon. So you can try anything, and you don't need to fear much.

By the way, I've read about interviews with people who survived jumping off the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco.

They usually achieved clarity as soon as they jumped. They realized that their dissatisfactions and problems were not so great or unsolvable in the scheme of things.

There are very few bad situations that you can't walk away from or otherwise make better.

No! Don't commit suicide. Being a teenager is hard. It gets better I promise. My goals seem unrealistic too, then I realized if I work hard enough, I can pretty much do anything. Try making some new friends, but yourself out there, it can be really hard, if you're shy and awkward( I am) but if you join a club with people with similar interests, I find it much easier to make friends. Do you have any cousins or older mentor- like people to talk to? Ask their advice? Everyone matures eventually, and being a little immature isn't a bad thing all the time. You CAN be happy. I believe in you. Good Luck. Please try <3

Me, Shy 19 year old girl.

Hi. I am Anney and I am 16. Just a month ago I was going through the same suicide thoughts and I have very low self esteme. I don't have much friends at all. And there were times when I didn't have any close friends. I know how much it stinks. :(

But these thoughts are fixable. With your power and strenght you are able to make this change. You got to believe in yourself. It's hard and I know it seems like it's worthless even trying, but trust me just do what you like doing best. Drawing singing listening to music. Anything that you enjoy on your own. And think less about suicide because the less you think about it the sooner its going to go away.

You shouldn't commit suicide it's not worth it. Not worth it at all. You are a young girl and you have so muh to look forward to. And don't worry there's always someone that will be your friend, even one is better than nothing. It might be difficult at times but give it time. Think possitive. Try at least. Put in a little effort at a time and you'll see a HUDGE change in short period of time.

Please I want you to be there in this world and enjoy every little bit of it. xxxxx

Anney...

Experience

if you hate yourself that much, sure why not.
maybe you ll fail and it will teach you a lesson.
youtube it, i like to see how stupid you are.
no offens, but you are too dam young to know what is in store for you.
you dont know shyt.
you think that life evolves around school and your parents.
it doesn't.
soon you will find people who are just as weird and happy as can be.
so your young and you have dreams.
no matter what they are they are unrealistic if you have doomed your reality to be the way it is and not he way you make it.
if you quit, thats all on you.
you cant come back from hell.

Suicide is never the best option. There are so many places to get help with these kind of things. There are so many nice people who would love to be your friend. Who cares if you have unrealistic goals or deisres. Your just being original. Find new things to do that will make you happy. Enjoy life, don't throw it away when there are other options.

Absolutely NOT, you have to put up with the rain to get to the rainbow. Life sucks some times,I would know, but please, never choose suicide. I lost one of my best friends to suicide and i'd do anything to never hear, or see anyone even think about suicide. People love you, you just may not be able to tell sometimes.

Savanna, i thought suicide was the only way for me...but someday you will find a person or group who respects you for your goals, dreams, and just your differences...You'll never know if you do commit suicide...

Here's a tip...Every day when you wake up to start a new day..
You look at yourself in the mirror and say "Your f'ucking amazing".

Follow these steps:
Right down all the reason you think you have to commit.
Read them to yourself.
Read them again.
Laugh at yourself because you know it was a stupid idea.
Go work out (it'll make you happy)
Then go spend the night at your best friends house and tell her, "Why are you friends with me?"
She'll say all the amazing reasons why.
Then go live.

never choose suicide, its not a good choice because the fact that you still have a whole life ahead of you ,and i suggest you try new things, get a hobby, and make new friends, and also try to visit some family members you haven't seen in a while.

just take a long think about it, if its really what you want no one can stop you.
i don't want you too, and you still have the rest of your life ahead of you yet :)
chin up sweetie, things will get better soon :)
best wishes, and if you wanna chat my email is lacrii@hotmail.co.uk, see you have a friend :)

Umm, NO!!! You will have a great life if you keep going!! You will get a TON of friends if you just mingle a bit. DONT CHANGE! Trust me, Im anorexic, with 2 suicide attemps, dont do it, PLEASE! Everything changes if you try to1 Please don't do it!!

Just because you are unhappy with the way you are at this point in time does not mean that you will be for ever. Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. You are still very young with your whole life ahead of you.

Suicide is never an option. There is a whole world which is wonderful and full of possibilities ahead of you.