should i smoke for the first time w/ a guy?!

No, it would be fine. Seriously it wouldn't be that big a deal whoever you did it with. Don't big it up too much because due to your intolerance to it all you might feel is dizzyness and make you cough. Try it. Most of the world has. Then make decisions. You're not stupid.

read up on it if you have queries.
http://www.erowid.org/plants/cannabis/ca…

Smoking is a terrible habit. It destroys your genes, damages the air quality in the environment, and increases your risk of developing lung cancer (which is the deadliest type of cancer in the world)

It would definitely NOT be a good idea to smoke with your boyfriend. He is basically killing himself by smoking cigarettes and you shouldn't do that to yourself - no matter how much you think that you might want to..

okay ill give you what your asking for. i do smoke ciggs and weed so im not here to preach. my first time was indeed smoking with a guy, he wanted to have sex. i hope that answers your question. it will be more enjoyable with your girls because you'll be a lot more comfortable.







oh and for all of you who think weed is addicting, its scientifically proven that THC, the active ingredient in marijuana IS NOT ADDICTIVE. it does nothing that addicts the body. just so all of you people out there who aren't educated know that. :)

This is what we call peer pressure.
You dont really want to smoke. You already know it's bad. Why do I need to say it?
Just don't. It's all peer pressure and when their faces make em look 900 when their 16, it's their problem

Noooo! You'll get addicted to it once you started smoking. I think it'll be better if you encourage your friend not to smoke. I mean you wouldn't want you or your friend to get sick, do you?

DON'T SMOKE. It's a really stupid thing to do.

yeah weed is fine just dont smoke cigs, just stupid to do that

Ok, this is a tough question. I have been in your shoes many times. First, don't start smoking, I have seen "social smokers" turn into addicts and they waste so much money and damage their body. Take it from me, there is no point doing weed, weed is normally the gateway to more serious drugs, it might be classed as one of the least dangrous, but if you start on weed you will normally end up going much higher, don't take the chance mate.

But heres the next thing, will it affect your relationship with your friend? Your friend is most likely not trying to damage you intentionally, he obviously has a lot of fun with it so he wants to share the experience he has had with you, but tell him that you don't want to take it up and that you don't have problems with him doing it in a friendly way, but if you do you can try to get him off it over time.

Weed can lead to memory loss, many fatalities and your education will drop.

My advice is: DON'T DO IT!

I would highly suggest not smoking anything at all. Smoking will ruin ur life (it killed my grandma, two uncles, and my Gramps on the other side) it's really sad that so many from one family could die from smoking but it is true.
I would definitely NOT smoke weed u get into drugs u WILL ruin ur life one drug leads to the next pretty soon u will get addicted to more than just smoking. So if u want to ruin ur life start smoking, if u really care about ur self and ur friends don't start and try to get them from smoking too.
I would like to share with u a story about my dad he started smoking and drinking when he was sixteen. He would get some alcohol on the weekends illegally and drink it with his friends over a smoke. Pretty soon it started ruining his life he had a scholarship for football and lost it because he couldn't play any more his lungs couldn't take it with the smoking and all the running (he was on the track team too.) pretty soon he got married to an amazing person (my mom) and she started to change him to be the loving caring Father of 12 kids that he is now. It was a long process he was still smoking and drinking when he was 23 but by the time he was 24 he was done. The doctor told my dad if u continue to drink and smoke u will die withinthis year. Dad couldn't do that he had a great family in the making and a wonderful wife.
That is a shortened story of my dads story (very shortened) but it true and now he is THE best dad I could ever want or hope for he loves all of his kids (12) and would do anything for him even if it meant giving up what he loved most. "It's not the past pack that really does you in; it's the first, because that's what leads to all the other packs" Grandpa (the one who passed away) my father tells me that saying all the time to remind me NEVER smoke or drink. I hope this helps do not start smoking it will ruin your life!