my girlfriend doesn't enjoy sex?!
Question: My girlfriend doesn't enjoy sex?
i love her more than anything.. in the world. i'm not sure what i should do. whats funny is she was the one who initiated our first time. so i think now shes probably feeling disappointed. we stopped entirely because i just can't enjoy it knowing she's not enjoying it. how can i fix things?
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If your girl friend is not adequately wet on her own it can be quite painful to have sex. If you have not tried lube like KY or Astroglide it may help. A lot of those feminine enhancement gels help with her satisfaction (like Ky Intense). You should know that the more turned on a woman is the more wet she gets, so foreplay is necessary for good sex ask her what she likes when your just messing around and not having sex and do more of that. There are some women who just don't produce enough wetness that is why there is lube in the first place.
I am a woman
Sorry this answer may be a little inappropriate. Has she tried masturbating? It helps if her (you know what) is stretched so she feels less pain and it becomes more pleasurable. Also maybe tell her to use painkillers.