how to stop being shy ?!


Question: How to stop being shy ?
i am going to grade 10 next year i wanna know how to stop being shy. i wanna meet knew people and guys :S lol one of my friends are friends with all these guys and she says she just talks to them and she knows i cant do that because i am shy. as well when i talk i say the wrong words but if i say them when one is around i can talk normally ?? help please

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Start slowly. Don't expect to just walk into school one day and scream HELLO EVERYONE. Just start with a simple "hey" and then take it from there. Speak a little more everyday; taking small steps will make you a lot more comfortable. Also, remember that if someone sees that you're shy, they won't hate you for that. There's nothing wrong with being shy and any good person will know that. I'm the kind of person that when I notice that someone is a little shy and scared, I will try my best to make them comfortable. I used to be SUPER shy when I was younger. I started off by using little comments, like "how are you?" to start a conversation, or making jokes about being shy. If you tell someone that you are shy, they will understand you better and try their best to keep you comfortable.



Pretend like this person is close family member and you are having a conversation with them. You wouldn't be shy talking to your brother or sister, would you ? I know how you feel, I used to be the same. You talk to someone and everything you say ends up sounding stupid and you go red with embarrassment! Get a hair cut that you are really confident with and makes you feel great.Wear some makeup to give you confidence too! good luck !




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