Men, vagina opinions please.?!


Question: Men, vagina opinions please.?
First off, I want honesty. Complete and total honesty. And I know the technical term for the outter part is vulva, not vagina, but most people refer to it as a vagina anyway..so.
Second, sorry this is so long so if you read it all, I appreciate it!
I've searched the internet far and wide for what I'm looking for and I can't. I have some major issues with my nether regions. Yes, yes, I know that lots of women do and I have also been told numerous times that men don't care as long a they are getting some--but I just don't buy it.
I'm a big girl. I know not all of you like big girls, that's fine, if you want to give your opinion anyway, I'd like it. I have a very large mons pubis. I've read on many medical websites that it's genetic but I know that a lot of it has to do with me being overweight. But this part of me bothers me so much I can't stand it. And to add insult to injury I don't have a labia minora AND my labia majora is large. I'm 23, successful, mature, and confident in so many ways, but this is just one are of my life that I turn into a self conscious 13 year old and I can't shake it. I've been intimate with a few guys and not one has said anything but I'm still self conscious. I feel so deformed and completely unattractive because of it. So, is any of this a big deal to you guys or not? What is your opinion? I really hate it because I am so confident and secure with my body but just not with this. And I'm very sexual but hold back a lot because of it. And to add some more insult to the already present insulted injury, I can't shave as much down there as I'd like because I have the most awful sensitive skin ever. I've tried every technique, razor, and gel there is but I absolutely break out horribly and I feel like it's more unattractive then just leaving it be. I trim it up and keep it as tidy as possible. I don't have much pubic hair anyway and it's not everywhere like chubaca or something. I just need some...I don't know, something. Honesty, answers, opinions, something. I dated a guy earlier this year, which didn't last long and we were never intimate, but I was concerned about dating because of it. Now I'm talking to another guy and this fear is here again--and he's someone I can see something with long term. Ok, I'm done. Thanks guys so much! I appreciate it. Women, if you want to add me something too, go for it. Have a great night.

Answers:

I may be of help, I'm a lesbian. I i too suffer from the sensitive skin issue. Instead of shaving the pubes with a razor, go get a clipper set. You know, the hair buzzer things for men. Works wonderfully. And as far as the labia thing goes, My wife has only one labia minora but it bothers neither of us. We just have to be able to find our way around down there and all is kosher. Don't worry too much about this. Have as much sex as you want, just you know, be safe.

Personal Knowledge



If it bothers you that much, why don't you get plastic surgery to reduce it. (Fem)



Honestly, no, it really isn't THAT big of a deal.



Are you walking around in crotchless panties to be evaluated by your future soulmate?

There is a lot that happens in between the first meet and sex. I doubt a guy will put up with all your insecurities that long to turn you down the second he sees your vagina. Furthermore, I highly doubt any guy will inspect your vagina and criticize it as thoroughly as you do.

Who knows? Maybe you'll find a guy who is turned on by your situation.

I honestly think it'll be as big of a problem as you let it be. If you're insecure when you're intimate and can't enjoy yourself, he won't enjoy himself.

To turn the table: Would you rather date a man with a deformed whatever who can't get over himself and dumps his problems on you or would you rather date a man who accepts his deformed whatever and happily ***** the **** out of you?

common sense




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