is what im feeling normal for my age??????!
Question: Is what im feeling normal for my age??????
im still a virgin and im not sure if im ready for that next big step! like part of me says HELL YES! but the other part says i should wait until im older.
i have been masturbating regularly to just take care of my urges but im getting into the point that i want something more , like the real thing!
around the age of 15 i did things to a guy but i did't lose my virginity with him. (thank god!) i regretted what i did to him, and i was confused backed then.
now im scared when im ready to be in a real relationship with a girl and that time comes that i'll also regret it!
like i also feel kind of left behind, becuase i have never been in a relationship and i haven't even gotten my first kiss! (i know kind of sad isn't it?)
i wont to fall in love but i always noticed that i fall for those kind of girls that already have a boyfriend, and can't find any single girls that im really attracted to!
so are these urges normal for my age????
and what should i do???!!!!
btw im straight, i went through a little phase during my mid-teens lol
Answers:
Sounds like your just thinking about it too hard urges ar normal at your age, you are putting too much pressure on yourself and that can make you act like a jerk around women. Take it easy and let things happen with a girl naturally make sure to protect yourself too. If your not sure you are ready and you dont even have a girlfriend you are probably not ready. You will probably look back at this time in your life and laugh. Good luck buddy.
Yes these sexual urges are all very normal. You are ready to take it further with a girl but dont just jump into bed with anyone and have a one night stand. Get out there and start to
meet girls yiu will find someone who you do fancy and doesnt have a boyfriend. And they will fancy you back. Good luck.
Whether you're into guys, girls, or both, just make sure you're being honest with yourself on that part.
I'd consider you normal for 19.
Sounds a little late for puberty? Go to a docter?
Or you could be gay, face the fact.