Is it likely I have something and/or am pregnant?!


Question: Is it likely I have something and/or am pregnant?
I have had 9 sexual partners... all was protected sex except for the first and last one. The first one was 3 years ago, I got tested for everything afterward and was completely clean. Ever since then, I have not gotten tested. Luckily, I haven't showed any symptoms of anything so far. The most recent one was a little more than 3 weeks ago. We were drinking, and he wanted to have unprotected sex. I told him absolutely not, but he kept persisting, saying he would just pull out. I would not budge at all, so he grudgingly went to get a condom from his car. We started having sex, and then suddenly I just became so out of it, I can hardly recall anything after that point. The last thing I remember was him saying "See, I told you I would pull out." In my mind I was so angry hearing that, but sadly I was too wasted to say/do anything. I just threw up and passed out instead. The next day I asked him what happened, he said the condom broke but he was too horny so he finished with out one. He kept avoiding answering me when I asked him how long he was inside me with out a condom.. from what I gathered it was probably about 45 minutes or so. He then said this "Don't worry, you're not pregnant. I pulled out like I promised. I'm pretty much a pro, I've been pulling out since I was 19." (He's 23) I freaked out and got mad at him, saying that I'm not only worried about getting pregnant, but I'm also terrified of getting STDs and that he put me at a great risk of getting one since he's been having 4 years of unprotected sex with God know how many girls. I got very mad at him. He said I have nothing to worry about, he gets tested and is clean, but I don't trust him.

We had sex a few days after my last period ended. My period was due two days ago, and I haven't gotten it yet. I'm not sure if this is true or not, it may be just a myth, but I have heard that Latino men (on an average) are more fertile. This guy was Mexican. I've been late before, so I'm not too terribly worried yet.. but it's still in the back of my mind. I've been getting cramp-like pains, but they feel different from normal. I've also been feeling pain in my ovaries, which I've never gotten before. I'm not sure if I'm just being paranoid or not.

I got a HIV test a week ago and it came out negative, I will be going back periodically for more tests though. I went to my gynecologist, he said everything looked/felt normal, I will be getting the pap smear/std results in about a week. I am scheduled to get an STD blood test (for some reason it wasn't checked with the HIV test) next Tuesday. I haven't showed any symptoms, everything has been normal, but I'm worried that it may just be too soon for anything to show yet.

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It sounds like you should stay away from latino men.



Call the cops and send him to jail for daterape or better yet, deported!



First priority: STOP getting wasted, you put your own self at risk by becoming chemically compromised. You have to make your health and wellbeing your first priority, because without it, you are screwed. If you lose your good health, you have lost everything. You are probably not pregnant, but of course there are no guarantees. You will know soon whether or not you are pregnant. As for the STD issue, that is yet to be determined. It can take 6 months to test positive on HIV. You might have also contracted herpes, or genital warts. By the way, if he indeed has had unprotected sex with many different girls for 4 years, there is NO way he failed to catch something during that time. I know that people are young, their judgement is not fully developed. But it's time for everyone to take control of their lives, and be in charge of their destiny.

I am a nurse



I doubt you're pregnant. Pre-*** very rarely (very, very rarely) has sperm in it, and if he pulled out before c*mming then you should be alright.
As for the STDs, if he says he's negative, you can be sure he is negative for most serious things like HIV. However there's a good chance he's given you the genital wart virus, if he hasn't had proitected sex for four years, and testing for the genital wart virus is pointless because some people can carry the virus and not develop the warts, and pass on the virus without having the warts, and there's no way of telling whether they have the virus or not... it's estimated that 75% of people are infected with the virus (whether they have the warts or not). So make sure you get pap smears to see if you develop warts or not >.>

p.s., your f***buddy is an a$$hole




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