would it be a good idea for me to get a vasectomy?!
Question: Would it be a good idea for me to get a vasectomy?
what is your opinion on this??
Answers:
There's no good solution, really... a condom is the most responsible you can be, short of just not sleeping around. Wearing a condom tells your partners that you care, as well as protecting you - telling them you're vasectomized will probably not be very believable, considering your relative youth. I'd certainly raise my eyebrow skeptically, if I were a young party girl and a 20-year-old hottie told me he didn't need a condom because he'd had surgery.
Also, I know it's hard to imagine now, but in 5-15 years you may meet the love of your life who you want to start a family with, and you'll have to go attempt to have it reversed which is expensive and is not a guaranteed success, or else you'll have to tell her that she must undergo a rather unromantic artificial insemination procedure with your frozen seed. Not cool ... worth it? Maybe, but I wouldn't want to risk it if I were you.
The only reason a condom is less than 100% is because of the human error factor. If a condom fits well and is used correctly and does not slip off, it is 100%. You have to get it on before you even touch, and be sure it does not slip. I got pregnant because a condom slipped off once, but if my partner had been paying careful attention, I believe it wouldn't have happened.
I was 21 when I had mine. No I do not have children.
A vasectomy is 99.5%. A vasectomy and a condom is about as good as it gets.
Just get the vasectomy. I am now 45. I still think it was the best thing I ever did.
Only a moron that never steps outside his own house would tell you no doctor will perform the sugary.
Most doctors won't perform a vasectomy on someone your age; it's very unethical. Other than that wear a condom, make sure she's on birth control or have her put in a diaphragm.