Sex questions! need help:)?!


Question: Sex questions! need help:)?
My boyfriend and i have had sex 3 times, i was a Virgin and he defiantly was not. Neither of us have had an orgasm either of the times. I know that im not going to be great straight away but i love him so much and i want to please him. Does anyone have any advise on how i can improve it for him next time?

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"I learned about sex from Sex and the City, Cosmopolitan and the occasional overly graphic movie I wasn't supposed to be watching. All three mediums presented sex as a competition that you could only win by being the best lover your partner ever had.

I wasn't quite sure how you were supposed to accomplish this. Was there a secret move, a certain thrust of the hips, that was the key to being a veritable vixen?

I have shamelessly asked countless male friends this very question, and it has gotten me a little closer to some kind of answer. Obviously sex is different for every person, but there are some things that most guys seem to like.

The guys I have talked to have overwhelmingly said that their most memorable partners have been really enthusiastic in bed. They're really into having sex.

They initiate it, they suggest trying new things, they seem uninhibited and they tell a guy exactly what to do to make them come.

Obviously there's a limit to this: Most guys would get a little freaked out if a girl pulled out a strap-on and told them to bend over the first or second time they had sex.

But, in general, guys have healthy sexual appetites, and they're looking for someone who is as hungry for an orgasm as they are.

Showing a guy that there is nowhere else you'd rather be is the best move you can pull in bed.

How can you do this? The first step is body confidence.

A lot of girls feel insecure when they're naked. Our society teaches women to look at each other critically, to seek out the flaws and imperfections in each other's bodies.

Occasionally, women assume that men are doing the same thing. But men aren't wired like that, especially when a situation presents them with the potential for sex.

Their hormones kick in and the blood leaves their brains and heads south, leaving them with only one thought: 'Naked girl - hot!' "

You should talk to him. Discuss what went wrong or what went right. If you are having such an intimate relationship you should be able to talk about it without getting embarrassed.

If the thought of having 'the talk' scares you talk to close friends or read up on it. Dont worry xx

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Why dont you ask your boyfriend? You have business to do here for gods sake!




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