How do i help my fience' quit his drug habbit!!?!

How do i help my fience' quit his drug habbit!!?

Iv been with my Fience' for over 3 years and when we met he didnt have a drug problem (Dope Smoker) about a year into our relationship he met a friend who was and he started doing it behind my back and then i found out and i wasnt happy about it but i couldn't do anything at the time! Now been together over 3 years and it has turned into an everyday thing morning noon and night and if he doesnt have it he is a monster! I want to help him stop this habit but it is so hard! I dont want to leave him because i love him and i want to help him get his life back on track! Im tired of seeing him getting worse and worse Im sick of all the money he is wasting on this and im sick of all the times we fight over when i say enough is enough and that he isn't getting it but he always wins! He has been saying for 2 years he wants to give it up but the day never comes! he has been to his dr that gave him lexapro and that helped but he couldn't be bothered taking them every day! how do i help him??

1 week ago
How do i help him and make him see sense in what he is doing is only making him a monster and making him end his life to early! I wont leave him I am staying to help him Because I know he can do this with my help but i just dont know what exactly to do?? Please no negative answers! Is anyone else going through this? He is only 22!?

You are not gonna like this answer, but here it is...... drop the loser. If he does not love you enough to respect your wishes and stop killing what few brain cells he has left so that there may be a chance at you two having a long, mostly intelligent life together, then I would have to assume he does not deserve you. If you continue to subject yourself to allowing him to ignore your wishes on this important request/wish (not too mention legal), then he will know that you are willing to be a door mat and "lines" on other issues will be ignored by him.
Relationships are based on compromise, trust, honesty, commitment, and love. To me, it sounds like he is lacking in most. Take it from someone that knows exactly what drugs can and will do to family, friends, and life.