HELP!! What can I do?!
Question:
HELP!! What can I do?
I have been dying for a baby for a little while now,
and now one of my friends just had one, and it makes me crave one even more!
BUT, I have only been married a little over a year, and my hubby and I are still working on saving a little money...plus, Im in college still, and should be done withing a year or two.
SO, we decided the earliest that I could get pregnant is in a little over a year from now. Then, we woudnt actually have a baby for two years, and it will be around our third anniversary. PLUS, Im only 19, and hes 22!
Anyways, what can I do to make the time go by and enjoy it without thinking of baby all of the time?
Answers:
It is only natural for you to want to share that love you feel for him with a new baby. You will be an AWESOME parent when the time comes. Just remember that you have a plan in place and that the reward is really worth it. A planned child is so much more worth it. No anxiety about the financial binds that are created by an 'unexpected pregnancy' or regrets about not having finished what you began. You both will be so much better off being a little older and a lot more ready. Invite this friend to stay with you for a couple of days so that you can 'help' her with the new baby. This may help you to decide whether this is the right thing at the Right time.