HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!question... keeping people from talking abo!

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!question... keeping people from talking about u being skinny?

I have to get surgery through my mouth on my brain at the end of the summer other than being totally scared!!!! i wont be able to eat for a while just smothies and protein, iron, vitiam pills, thats it!
when i go to school i will have lost a few pounds, (mayb more?) and im 90 pounds 5' 4" now so.....
how do i keep people form saying im aniorextic or bulemic or other things or should i just embrace it???????
HELP?????

First off, I want to wish you well on the surgery and hope all goes well (((hugs)))

Would it bother you to share with them what you had to go through? If not, I'd let them know you had to have brain surgery and were unable to eat any solid foods for a while. Tell them you've been under a doctor's care and he is staying on top of things. Then thank them for their concern.

If you don't want to share that information with them, tell them you are perfectly fine but you appreciate their concern and leave it at that. If they continue to bug you about it, ask them to please leave you alone, that you don't care to discuss it anymore.

What others think about us isn't important as long as we know we haven't done anything wrong so learn to be strong and don't worry about what others think.

Hold your head up high and be proud of who you are. Don't let others bring you down in any way. You know what you've been through and you really do not owe anyone any kind of explanation unless you choose to share with them. Be strong and take care :)