Condom help?? guys n girls??!

Condom help?? guys n girls??

ok i asked before but i can't find the question!! some of mine wont show up!!

ok you may or may not be able to help me here but i thought it was maybe worth a try!

me and my bf gave up using condoms a while ago as we ran out but i had a pregnancy scare last month so we stocked up again! my only problem is that my bf REALLY hates them and if he has a hard on as soon as he puts a condom on hes not anymore! we have tried a few times and i feel bad because its me making him wear them as i don't want to try the pill again just yet as i had a few problems before. he understands that and he feels really bad becuase he is really turned on by me but he can't get hard!

ok...so my question is does anyone have any ideas for me so that i can help to turn him on a lot so he can maintain his hard on because it really fustrates him and ts not so good for me!! lol!! ANY ideas would be good! thanks guys in advance xxxxx

4 weeks ago
nectar --- i actually find u quite offensive!! my bf isnt mad!! he doesn't have physocological problems!

4 weeks ago
im not scared of pregnancy...we would quite like a baby! but not right now. its one reason i wont go back on the pill because then we wont be able to have a baby so quickly when we decide the time is right!

Lots of people find the process of putting on a condom is pretty 'unsexy'.

This CAN be an attitude problem; some people find clothes, or foreplay, 'unsexy', because they get in the way of 'proper'sex. If you have enough good foreplay before putting a condom on, its effects will usually last long enough to keep an erection going.

One technique is to include putting the condom on WITHIN your foreplay. He might enjoy the process better if YOU put the condom on him. This can be done in a very sensual, stroking way, rather than just 'let's cover it up, so we can get on with the next bit'. Doing this also allows you to add extra lubricant, and to slow him down or speed him up, depending on the circumstances. However, it does need practice.

You could even try putting it on with your mouth. This is traditionally a 'stealth' technique, used by hookers whose clients won't wear one. With practice, it can be smuggled into your mouth, and onto him, very smoothly. Flavoured condoms are useful, but you needn't use up a huge number of them while you practice. If you try putting it onto something like a carrot or banana, it can be re-rolled for several attempts (for real sex, you should only ever use a condom once).