Why Is Everything Bad Happening To Me!??!

Why Is Everything Bad Happening To Me!??

Just take a moment and BREATHE. I know sometimes it seems like nothing in the world is going right, like you have "angered the Gods that be," but I promise you, things WILL turn around. The best thing you can do is remain calm, try to relax, and disect your situation one point at a time. You didn't include any details as to what the "bad" things are, so I'm going to use a "for instance."

Let's just say, for instance, that you have lost your job, you just received notice that you are getting evicted from your house within 30 days, and your car broke down, all on the same day. Pretty crappy, huh? The best thing to do would be to take things one step at a time. Think about it logically....what is the most pressing?

While all of the items listed are important, you have to reassign priority and solve one at a time. Personally, I would focus my energy on getting the car fixed first. (You have to have a car to look for new employment AND a new place to live.) Employment would be the next priority ~ you have to have money to pay for a new place, right? The eviction would be the least of my worries at this point because, first of all, I would have 30 days time to deal with it, which may be enough to find a new job and new apartment. And, if I don't have a new place by then, I know that most states allow for an "extension" on an eviction which may give me an additional 15-30 days.

I know I may be oversimplifying things, but I just wanted to give you an idea of how to see your way out of the "tunnel of bad" that you have found yourself in. Just don't give up! Hang in there..........and BREATHE!

Good luck to you!