[guys answer please]: sociology assignment - Girls who have been physically brui!
Question:
[guys answer please]: sociology assignment - Girls who have been physically bruised.?
I am doing a sociology assignment on girls (age 20-22) and bodily bruising...
1. do people automatically assume she has been hit by a boyfriend?
2. do her bruises make people feel bad/ ashamed?
3. once the bruises have been noticed, do people focus on them and wonder how she got them?
4. what do guys feel/think when they see a girl with bruises on her arms/face?
5. do guys feel motivated to act more gently around her? do they feel awkward in her prescense? why???
i would really appreciate your feedback. Thanks :)
Answers:
I'm gonna have my bf answer this 1
it depends on where the bruises r, face,wrists, shoulders r areas where a girl has been held or restrained and marks will show. in order of Ur question: 1. yes, 2. yes, I'm a man answering on my gfs account for her, u asked for a guys perspective and she asked me to read this.3. if i knew her, id ask as soon as i saw them, if it was abuse, id b ashamed to b a man , but id know i didn't do it, so id try to help a friend. 4. id like to meet the abuser in a dark alley with some friends and return the favor, violence isn't right, but sometimes its necessary. 5. gently, yes awkward, no, id b there as a friend and want to help Ive been there and Ive done #'s 3,4, and 5 b4, the guy never touched her again and she left him anyway. as for why, its in the male phsyci to help women in distress.