Boyfriend problem?!
Question:
Boyfriend problem?
ugh so I've had my boyfriend for about 3 weeks, but he ALWAYS flirts with other girls (he slapped my friend's butt, and snapped my other friend's bra strap, and just flirts with them) i've talked to him about it, and he said he'd stop. but i don't think he will and i don't want to get too far into the relationship where i get to REALLY like him and then he just flirts with my friends again and breaks my heart. I really like him, and he really likes me but i'm worried that when im not around, he's off flirting with other girls. :( what do i do? if i break up with him, I'll be so sad and heartbroken, but if I stay with him, I'll be heartbroken also if he starts flirting with other girls again. HELP! i desperatly need it.
Answers:
Three weeks is not very far into the relationship that if you are already seeing signs of behavior that will make you unhappy, get out now. Otherwise you are just going to have to understand he is a flirtatious person and you will need to know that when it is harmless you need to look the other way. I do agree that slapping on the butt of others is not acceptable behavior. Also when talking with him ask him how he would feel if you slapped his friend's butt, sometimes turning the situation around gives a better perspective to the other person. The good thing is that you found this out three weeks into the relationship instead of three years. Good luck!!