I need help i dont know what to do. help??!
Question: well my sister was in the hospital with rumatory arthritus and lumpus and some weird blood disease and lots of things.
well they had to do surgury on her and everyone agreed on it but me. i jus had a bad feeling bout it and it was a 60% success rate and .....
she didnt make it. it is jus unreal u know i jus cant beleive it. i mean i jus talked to her and i jus cant beleive it. like it is a bad dream and i cant wake from it. anyone help me get past it.
Answers: well my sister was in the hospital with rumatory arthritus and lumpus and some weird blood disease and lots of things.
well they had to do surgury on her and everyone agreed on it but me. i jus had a bad feeling bout it and it was a 60% success rate and .....
she didnt make it. it is jus unreal u know i jus cant beleive it. i mean i jus talked to her and i jus cant beleive it. like it is a bad dream and i cant wake from it. anyone help me get past it.
Please see a doc and find a good support group. Nothing that happend is your fault nor was there anything you could have done to prevent her death. The best thing you can do is to live you life as she would have wanted you to. You could also get a journal and start putting your feelings down on paper, I did that when my Mom died and it really did help. Please take care of yourself and I wish you peace.
It sounds like your sister was very sick. It is not your fault that she did not make it and it is not your family's fault either. It just happened. I know how you feel about just talking to her... been in a similar situation myself recently. first of all, see your doctor, I started on some medications that have really helped, not xanax or anything, I am on prozac, second, you need to talk to someone. I had a lot of anger built up and I found when I talked to someone (not a family member) it really helped. I still have days where I am angry but the bottom line is that I have some wonderful memories and I find myself now talking about them and telling friends funny stories about my brother. you will get through it you do need to let yourself grieve, don't be too hard on yourself and take it one day at a time.