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Question: Here's my problem, it goes way back. I have struggled with IBS for a few years. It got a lot better for a while but then two years ago I got an infection in my intestines and was really sick for a long time. I've since been treated for it by a doc. I'm better but still have a lot of problems. I worked for a ministry that was very grueling for a long time while I was sick. I had to go through so much that after I quit and sought medical help about many physical and emotional problems my spirit was changed. I came from a position that was difficult (in a group home for troubled teens) where I never got to put myself first and since quitting, moving, and taking a sabatical for my health I finally have time to care about me. Needless to say I feel I'm going through a very selfish stage b/c I suffered for so long. I was used a lot in music ministry before. I've strived to get some opportunities as a secular artist now and I am finally starting to have some paid gigs but I'm not sure if I..


Answers: Here's my problem, it goes way back. I have struggled with IBS for a few years. It got a lot better for a while but then two years ago I got an infection in my intestines and was really sick for a long time. I've since been treated for it by a doc. I'm better but still have a lot of problems. I worked for a ministry that was very grueling for a long time while I was sick. I had to go through so much that after I quit and sought medical help about many physical and emotional problems my spirit was changed. I came from a position that was difficult (in a group home for troubled teens) where I never got to put myself first and since quitting, moving, and taking a sabatical for my health I finally have time to care about me. Needless to say I feel I'm going through a very selfish stage b/c I suffered for so long. I was used a lot in music ministry before. I've strived to get some opportunities as a secular artist now and I am finally starting to have some paid gigs but I'm not sure if I..

First, please resume taking your anti-depressants. Once you do that, your anxieties will subside. The static in your head will go away and you will be able to think clearly. You will see you are a beautiful person worthy of goodness.

Second, you are doing the right thing by pursuing what you love. Congratulations on getting those paid gigs! You should feel so great about yourself! Don't be afraid to celebrate! Be proud! You did it!

Third, think about your best friend. Think about how much you'd be willing to do for your best friend. Think about how much you love your best friend. Now, realize that YOU are YOUR best friend! Take care of yourself! :)

Lastly, if you want to stop taking medicine, you should get help from a doctor to prevent relapse and feelings of guilt. Realize, too, that some anti-depressants are supplementing a natural chemical you can get from exercising. So when you're feeling blue and need a pick-me-up, try going for a jog or getting some exercise. You'll feel so much better.

Good luck! :)

dont feel selfish....u need to do some stuff for yourself...let yourself be happy just dont get carried away with it. gooog luck andd God bless!





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