What is missing from my life???!
Question: Was doing some deep thinking last night, every relationship i have been in theres always something missing and i don't know what it is but things areen't perfect becuase this is missing so i think it is just them and find someone else (or did in the past) and when i was single it was still missing but i just thought it was because i needed a man lol
but now i just think it is not the relationship or anything its just something missing from my life in general i don't know what it is i just don't feel completely happy ever, i always think other people are way happier than me, do u feel like this or am i just going mad??
ps i'm married now with a gorgeous little boy, and good job own home, nice car, I have a lively happy personality just can't feel complete, I even tried God as I thought this was the void, but I have been going to church and reading the bible and still feel something is missing thanks for listening. x
Answers: Was doing some deep thinking last night, every relationship i have been in theres always something missing and i don't know what it is but things areen't perfect becuase this is missing so i think it is just them and find someone else (or did in the past) and when i was single it was still missing but i just thought it was because i needed a man lol
but now i just think it is not the relationship or anything its just something missing from my life in general i don't know what it is i just don't feel completely happy ever, i always think other people are way happier than me, do u feel like this or am i just going mad??
ps i'm married now with a gorgeous little boy, and good job own home, nice car, I have a lively happy personality just can't feel complete, I even tried God as I thought this was the void, but I have been going to church and reading the bible and still feel something is missing thanks for listening. x
self-satisfaction, you can have all the nice stuff in the world, but if you are not happy with you, then it is all for naught. you are right you did think you needed a man to validate you, i have a few friends in this mind-set. the problem is that no matter how beautiful your kids or house are, it doesn't really do anything for you, you need to make your life meaningful outside of being a wife and mother, try volunteering, or get involoved in some campaign, go after some goal you long ago gave up for something else, like school, or learning to play the piano. do some soul searching, forget about thereal world for moment and ask what would make you happy, then go do it!
I think everyone feels this way, always thinking we are missing something that other people seem to have, but have you ever thought that that other person is thinking the same thing. We will all search for eternal happiness. If you have so many happy things in your life now settle with that and be happy because you have much more than a lot of people do.
What's missing - EXCITEMENT!
Don't take this the wrong way but - you are living a boring middle class suburban existence with nothing different or exciting happening. Each day is the same -
Get a motorbike and go for a ride - or take a parachute jump. Do something completely different and get some excitement into your life - alone or with hubby - hell, go white water rafting or something.
I do feel the same - I'm not sure what it is - maybe a case of the grass seems greener on the other side? maybe you should try takin up a hobby or somethin - do somethin you really enjoy or even every so often do somethin completely different like go out somewhere you wouldn't normally go. i am still tryin to figure what is missin in my life too - although with me i think its to do with my job - i have a good job but i dont feel i get anything out of it - i just turn up.
I think a lot of people do feel like this so don't be worrying it's only you! try and stay positive an i hope you find that something!
i know u say god isn't working for u. just talk to your paster at the church u are going to and ask why u still feel that way. aslo it could be u are not at the right church. like my family went to so many churchs and finelly we have found the right one. so just explore your options.
There is something in your past that is holding you back. Please talk to a therapist or a marriage counselor to find out why you can't find what you need.
Perhaps you grew up in an abusive home or had problems as a teen. That can come back to haunt you.
i know what your saying, i am at a kind of cross roads in my life too, or should i say kind of dead end, i think " is this it" and there has got to be more to life. i am always craving excitment, but in a honest good living relationship, there is an equalibrium that is created and this is when we start getting comfy and think to ourselves, are we missing out on stuff, and the answer to that question is no, because this is the life we are living and this is the one that we will continue with unless we make choices to change it. there is nothing missing in your life and if you think everyone is happier,then dont! because on the exterior everyone seems happy, but inside we are all insecure and crave more all the time, its all part of being human i think. you have just reached the point in your life that you are questioning things. just think how lucky you are, smile and get on with leading a happy exsitence. i hope you feel better soon hun, i know how you feel, but there is no miracle cure unfortunatley. x
Sounds like fear of success to me, I have it as well. It's not a missing feeling, rather the comfortably with being down. When things go well I don't trust it either. Assume it will all come crashing down. Getting better but still an issue.
But I feel like the world is in on some secret that I don't get as well. I don't really know what to tell you to help. But self identification is the first step to any growth.
Decode this lyrics " If you don't know me by now"
Luke 12. 29-32
Revealation 22.13-17
What do you think?
well adventure go gambling or something fuuuuuuuunnnnnnnn!!!!!!