What do you do when you are in so much pain?!


Question: hi my name is shellie i have lost eveyone i llve my friends eveythang cuz i was raped and i don't know what to do i just feel so sad and mad right now i just feel like i don't want to be in the world i meen eveythang is going wrong.


Answers: hi my name is shellie i have lost eveyone i llve my friends eveythang cuz i was raped and i don't know what to do i just feel so sad and mad right now i just feel like i don't want to be in the world i meen eveythang is going wrong.

hey girl why are you letting these people get you so upset? I'm sorry to hear about what happened but like i have said before these people who can't be there for you and give you the support that you need and to be there for you, well you are better off without them. Girl all you need is your family and God in your live, but most important God. I have always said you are better off when i good TRUE friend than to say I have 20-30 friends and to find out that they you don't have those true friends.
For now keep your head up and remember don't feel like it was your fault because IT WASN"T!!! You are someone special and these people who are walking out on are stupid and don't deserve to have you as a friend.
Once again I'm sorry to hear about what you are going thru but I'll be here if you need to talk just send me an e-mail and we can chat or something.

There are rape crisis centers and counselors that can help you. Look in the front of your phone book. Call today. You're worth it and you have a right to be happy in this world.

Call one of these hotlines.
http://www.allaboutcounseling.com/crisis...

They really will help you. You'll be okay.

there's help for rape victims, i'd seek that out, my friend was raped &found therapy specifically for rape victims &she said it helped her out huge

some sites that might help:
http://www.rapecrisis.org.uk/
http://www.rapehelp.com/

I would contact your local YWCA and they can set you up with a rape counselor and help you to start healing. If you are in physical pain, I would go to the hospital to get everything check out and this is also a good place to start to press charges. Good Luck with Everything.

i wish i could say some thing that would make it all good but i don't know what to say but i will be here for you if you need to talk email me klingonred@yahoo.com

you probably do need 2 talk 2 someone. I had it happen & did not talk & it made it much worse. If you don't want 2 call the hotlines, you can call the rape crisis center as the other person mention, a church employee, if you attend a church, no friends or no family, how about in the front of the phone book there are local numbers just 4 things like this. If you are still having troubles coping, a therapist (even in a free clinic, mental health or health department, even the hospital's have a team of social workers just 4 that too), but therapy is the best long run thing 4 you 2 do to get your life back on track.
If you ever need to my email is on my profile, I was medical, you may contact me also if you need a pen-pal buddy (internet) I am free 24/7. Other than a trip 2 the hospital 4 testing (the day after) 2 be sure I wasn't pregnant & check 4 diseases, I didn't tell anyone 4 about 2-3 weeks later, I actually blamed my friends 4 not being there 4 me, & disassociated myself from them. They were all in the house & left the door unlocked, & were asleep on the living room floor while I was upstairs in my room with my kids across the hall from me, that was even more horrifying, if something had happened 2 them,- but my friends, the last ones 2 enter did not lock the front door! So, I had ever right 2 blame them, & I still do, I just cannot find forgiveness in my heart, not when your in someone else's house, they were going in & out 2 smoke, is why they didn't lock it. So, I suffered 4 their stupidity & bad lung habit? I hope their lungs turn black & whither from nicotine, that won't hurt them as bad as they hurt me. Sorry, didn't mean 2 vent-I am very sorry, my angry is still there 2, it has been 6-7 years ago I guess, but I did 4give myself, & I am blessed my kids are okay, & if you need 2 talk please contact someone local or otherwise, it is very important 2 do that. Shellie, the pain does fade away, it just takes time, & not all people are bad, there are many good people, & people who are trained 2 talk 2 you, please pick up the phone soon & call someone, so you can go on & lead a beautiful life! & I know you will- see you have already reached out 4 help, you have started the process, just go a little further & then you can move on. There are also medications & the therapy 2 ease off the pain & sadness/hurt you feel now. God Bless you & watch over you.
Take care & ask for help... it cannot hurt. <hugs>
<Big hugs> email me 2, if u feel up 2 it anytime.





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