I RaN AWAY?!


Question: I RaN AWAY!?
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Of course, the good thing to do is just go home like nothing happened, you were just at the library!.

Then try to figure out why you ran away!. Once you have some idea, figure out a way to solve the reason!.

You can seek advice! Ask your parent/s things that are little parts of it if you don't want them to jump all over it with all four feet!. Ask an older sibling if you have one, especially a grown-up one!. Ask friends!. Ask people you know online!.

If you ask people online, be aware they may answer!.!.!. selfishly!.!.!. say things that lead to ideas that benefit THEM not you!. That happens in person too, but it's easier for the police to follow trails with "in person" people!.

That's important 'cause someone advising you that leads to you running away more successfully could desire ending up with you knocking on his/her door!. THEN you could be somewhere you'd never (be able to) leave!. And the police unable to follow the trail!. It's very important!

This is why you have to talk to people you can trust, or that could hurt you whether you talk to them or not!. It's because grown-ups have lots of practice at deceiving and getting their ways, and can sort of run circles around you doing that, you know!? It'd be too late when you catch up!.

But there's another way to harm yourself here!. If you want to keep it out of your parents' direct view for a while!. That's going to teachers or counselors at school, or your minister/priest!. They have to tell your parents!. It's the law!. So be ready to talk about whatever you find it to be with your parents after talking about it to one of those folks!.

How about a grandmother or grandfather!? The "gold standard" though is talking to your parent/s!. Or just one if the other is part or all of the trouble!. Sometimes though they can just look at you like you've just grown antlers and pooh-pooh all your soul's thoughts!. Be ready for that!. It's not rejection, or minimization of your problem/s, just that they don't understand!. That still leaves you all the other people who can help!.

It's really brutal though, when the problem is one parent behaving like how you fear the online people would!. And the other doesn't believe that one would ever do such things!. But if that's the case, you HAVE to talk to someone like a teacher or principal or counselor, or grandmother!. Someone who can get the law involved!.

But DO NOT:

1) Run away to anyone's home if you aren't related to them or it's not one little bus ride away!.
2) Stay away any longer!
3) Leave it festering, to get worse!.
4) Run away at all!.

See, when you're under 18, there's so little you can do of life's basics!. How do you eat!? Where do you sleep!? What do you do for clothes, medical care, school!? You can't sign contracts so even if you have money somehow, you can't rent a place to live!. Adults will notice if you are shopping all the time and send the police!. How do you get around!? You probably can't drive, and where do you get a car anyway!? How do you keep hidden from your parents and the police yet do all these things!?

These are really hard for someone 15 or older, and probably involve drugs or prostitution!. If you're younger than that, you're almost certainly really hosed!.

Because it leaves really only one choice: run away to someone you know (somehow) and live with him!. 'Cause it will be a "him" and he will have!.!.!. demands!.!.!.

Which would be better than whatever you are facing!.!.!. HOW!?

So running away just ISN'T a way to solve whatever it is!. It's almost certainly worse than, or at least as bad as, anything you are facing!.

You HAVE to try something out of the other things I had to say!.

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