Boyfriend Cutting.?!
Question: Boyfriend Cutting!.!?
Okay So heres how it went down!.
Every time my boyfriend doesnt get what he wants, he threatens to cut himself!.
No he's NOT emo!.
But he has cut himself before, and yeah!.
So today, i was at school and he was really sweaty, and i told him to take his sweatshirt off and he refused, so i took him by his wrist (jokingly) to try to take his sweatshirt off, and umm!.!.!.he like yelledi n pain!. i lifted his sleeve up, and he had 4 cuts!.!.idk what to do!.!.!.
i dont want him to hurt himself!.!.:(
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Every time my boyfriend doesnt get what he wants, he threatens to cut himself!.
No he's NOT emo!.
But he has cut himself before, and yeah!.
So today, i was at school and he was really sweaty, and i told him to take his sweatshirt off and he refused, so i took him by his wrist (jokingly) to try to take his sweatshirt off, and umm!.!.!.he like yelledi n pain!. i lifted his sleeve up, and he had 4 cuts!.!.idk what to do!.!.!.
i dont want him to hurt himself!.!.:(
Help!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Ok!.!.!. i hate hate hate hate cutting because i tried it and its useless and doesn't do anything at all cept make me more emo!.!.!. Everyone has a reason why they cut, nobody just decides to do it!. Something is bothering him and you gotta ask him why he does it!. Then tell him if he doesn't stop doing it you will be disappointed in him and kinda be mad at him!.!.!. thats wat my ex did and she made me quit!. So basically just ask why he feels cutting is the only answer and tell him not to do it anymore and threaten him that if he doesn't quit you'll quit him maybe!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He needs professional help like a psychiatrist or some kind of counseling!. Convince him to talk to someone!. People that cut generally have lots of inner pain or turmoil that they don't know how to deal with so they cut themselves to direct the pain elsewhere!. It is not a joke and he needs help right away!.Www@Answer-Health@Com