Help me to releive my pain?!


Question: Help me to releive my pain!?
I found out that my husband cheated on me!. I am so angry and almost want to kill him but at the same time i can't be without him!. seems like half of my pains released when im with him!. i hate my self for being like that and keep thinking about my husband's realtionship with the other woman!. it really eats me out!. i need to share my feelings or releive my pain by not telling any other relatives or friends!. what should I do!? i don't mean things like going out with other guy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Hmm!.!.!. :), well if you are really depressed about the matter, try to seek for counseling at the moment!. You'll need to TALK IT OUT, if not it will hunt you and effect ur marriage life and be nice to your hubby at the same time!. If you start to show any an ussual symptom to him that you're not happy it may change your hubby's mindset on you to a dark side!. Becarefull on this!.

Ok, for private investigator, may be not all are can be trusted!. Try to look for the one who is certified for these matters!. I know it will cost you but the end result will safe your marriage!. Which one you want, to save cost or save marriage!. Money you can earn in anyway but not your marriage!. So choose it wisely!. I know there are too many answers in here but be wise to choose and use them!. People can say this and that but at last still it you decision to call for!. Don't listen to much to people, you can consider their opinion but not to follow it!. Think carefully!. TC, save your marriage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

This will keep eating at you until you get it out and I think you should talk about it with a mediator and your husband present so you can get some answers to your questions!. Like why did he do it!? You want to prevent it from happening again and understanding what made him do it may help with that! Good luck I know your pain!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you and your husband should go to marriage counceling!. You need to get all of this hurt out in the open with him and then see where your marriage stands!. You also need to make sure that he's still not cheating and that there is something left of your marriage to save!. I hope everything works out for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well if you have the spirit and you sure seem to, ask a relative
Sister, Aunt!. Because you need to vent this anger!. Have you
spoken to your Doctor!. Perhaps he can help!. You really need
to talk to someone!. Best of Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

my partner did the same to me but he had been an alcoholic for a long time thats why we ended up breaking up!. im not condoneing his behaviour but he really did hit rock bottom in his life, he blamed me for parts of it to which i accept it as my share of responsibilities!. it killed me so hard i broke down, keyed his car heaps, burnt all of his clothes shoes and professional photos we had taken together costing $5000, then to top it off!.!.!.!.!.!.i slept with his apprentice! hey i was a scorned women, i have no regrets!. this is the ultimate betrayal no one should have to go thru! we were apart for 6 months then we got back together the next bight he got drunk and started fighting with me and i told him i didnt want to go thru this crap again with him!. i loved him but i love myself more not to do this again!. i told him he had to stop his drinking all together and you know what!.!.!.he did!. we've been great ever since, its been 6 months, but its still early days!. if you want to email for a chat please do!. we have alot in common ?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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