Please help...this could end my life.?!
Question: Please help!.!.!.this could end my life!.!?
sigh, well i was with my boyfriend, who i love so much, and as i was huging him, i saw cuts on his wrist!. this clogged my mind and now its causeing more pain to me!. i already had to go to the hospital for suisidel thoughts and cutting before, and i just stoped, but after i saw that my whole world came crashing donw on me and i downed 5 pills and began cutting again!. what should i do!? should i break up with him!? i don;t want to break his heart!.!.!.i love him!.!.!.
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Why would his cutting himself, knowing what he is going thru, have you start again yourself!? You did great when you stopped cutting yourself, and now, maybe he needs you to help him so that would be a good time for you to talk to him and try to help him instead of the both of you doing the same thing!. If he loves you as much as you love him, you both would help each other!. Try to get help together!. You already did GREAT when you stopped recently, so keep up the positive and have your bf seek help too!. Take care!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all you need to tell your parents that you have taken pills and started cutting yourself again!. Take care of yourself first as otherwise you won't be able to help your boyfriend!.
Tell your parents what precipitated this incident!. Tell them that you want your boyfriend to get help and would like them to go with you to talk to his parents!.
You might end up in the hospital again to get your emotions under control but that is OK!. You can be strong for the both of you!. Follow your treatment plan!.
You might have to quit seeing your boyfriend for a while!. You may need the separation in order for the both of you to get your conditions stabilized!. Other wise you will be feeding off of the misery of each other and will continue the cycle of compulsive destructive behaviors!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Tell your parents what precipitated this incident!. Tell them that you want your boyfriend to get help and would like them to go with you to talk to his parents!.
You might end up in the hospital again to get your emotions under control but that is OK!. You can be strong for the both of you!. Follow your treatment plan!.
You might have to quit seeing your boyfriend for a while!. You may need the separation in order for the both of you to get your conditions stabilized!. Other wise you will be feeding off of the misery of each other and will continue the cycle of compulsive destructive behaviors!.
Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
what i think is u should stay with him since your in love with him (how romantic) but both of u should go to the hospital and if he refuses convice him to go tell him that he could die from what hes doing tell him u love him and u dont want him to but dont tell him as a cammander tell him as his girl friend!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.does that help!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Good lord!. You kids, these days! There are far worse problems to kill yourself over than your little teeny-bopper drama!. Quit listening to crappy pop-punk, stop watching the WB, and go join the peace corps helping people in Africa who are starving to death!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
HONEY YOU NEED TO A CRISIS LINE ASAP AND TALK TO THEM THERE IS NOTHING IN THIS WORLD THAT BAD TO WHERE U NEED TO THAT MY DAUGHTER IS A CUTTER ALSO AND SHE UTILIZES MY LIFELINE WITH THE CRISIS LINE SHE IS ON MED AS WELL NOW YOU ARE LOVE BY HIM AND YOU SURE DONT WANT TO LEAVE THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE BEHIND CUZ THAT WILL CAUSE THEM A LOT OF HURT AND PAIN AS WELLWww@Answer-Health@Com
stop trying to burden the rest of the world because you want everyone to feel sorry for you!. get help if you need it and tell him if he wants to continue with this type of destruction, then you are going to walk awayWww@Answer-Health@Com
You need to talk it out get to the bottom of the suicidal thoughts or get some help for both of you!.
if you love him then do what you think is best for his well being, even if it involves breaking his heart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you love him then do what you think is best for his well being, even if it involves breaking his heart!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ask him where the cuts came from!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think it's time to grow up!! period!Www@Answer-Health@Com
U both need to get Reiki done! Go to Reiki!.orgWww@Answer-Health@Com