You still up?? Please help me. . .I feel a bit down.!
Question: You still up!?!? Please help me!. !. !.I feel a bit down!.
I'm sitting in the hospital room right now!. !. !. my dad's having surgery tomorrow cause he has several brain tumors!.
I'm so scared!. !. !. I trust God will make him ok and he'll get through just fine!. And he's in Emory in Atlanta Georgia with the best surgeon in the world!. That's what they all said!.
But still!. !. !. I still have fear!. I haven't even cried one bit, I just held it back!. I feel like a jerk !. !. !.though I tell him I love him lots!. But I'm just not emotional!. !. !. I don't know what's wrong with me!. Inside I feel crushed!. !. !.
What do I do!?!?!? Please help me!!! Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm so scared!. !. !. I trust God will make him ok and he'll get through just fine!. And he's in Emory in Atlanta Georgia with the best surgeon in the world!. That's what they all said!.
But still!. !. !. I still have fear!. I haven't even cried one bit, I just held it back!. I feel like a jerk !. !. !.though I tell him I love him lots!. But I'm just not emotional!. !. !. I don't know what's wrong with me!. Inside I feel crushed!. !. !.
What do I do!?!?!? Please help me!!! Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
It's odd that you asked this question today!. My step-mom is a nurse and she said something really profound about the eye-opening relationship between God and surgeons!. She said, "If ever once you thought it was a doctor saving someone's life in that operating room you were SO wrong!. After all these years I've learned one thing and one thing for sure: If God decides it's your time there's nothing those surgeons can do to 'save' you!."
It was such an odd thing to say because in all the years I've known the woman she's always seemed like such a 'science, science, science' medical professional!. Put your faith where it belongs because it doesn't matter if you've got the most talented surgeon in the galaxy or some medicine man in Papua New Guinea!.!.!.if God decides He needs you more than we do!.!.!.guess where you're going!. For you and your family I pray that God doesn't need your dad just yet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It was such an odd thing to say because in all the years I've known the woman she's always seemed like such a 'science, science, science' medical professional!. Put your faith where it belongs because it doesn't matter if you've got the most talented surgeon in the galaxy or some medicine man in Papua New Guinea!.!.!.if God decides He needs you more than we do!.!.!.guess where you're going!. For you and your family I pray that God doesn't need your dad just yet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I am so sorry for your situation!. I know it is so hard!. Please know that God is with you and your dad and all your loved ones!. Your support for your family is evident, and that is very important and special!.
I know it is hard to cry because you want to keep your confidence up, but it is good to express emotion, even if you do it in private!.
I said a prayer for your dad and you, I hope the surgery is a success!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know it is hard to cry because you want to keep your confidence up, but it is good to express emotion, even if you do it in private!.
I said a prayer for your dad and you, I hope the surgery is a success!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well go in the bathroom and cry!
It is okay!
He'll be just fine I know he will!
Just pray to god every 30 minutes and make sure your dad knows you love him a lot!
Hug and kiss him cuddle with him spend time with him so just in case he passes on during surgery but sure he won't so it is okay!
Take a deep breath think about him living not him dieing okay!.
Meditate clear you head need any help I am here okay!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is okay!
He'll be just fine I know he will!
Just pray to god every 30 minutes and make sure your dad knows you love him a lot!
Hug and kiss him cuddle with him spend time with him so just in case he passes on during surgery but sure he won't so it is okay!
Take a deep breath think about him living not him dieing okay!.
Meditate clear you head need any help I am here okay!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
omg i couldn't even try 2 understand but your just a storng women it'z not your falt like me i never cry when i get hurt but i all wayz cry when i feel hurt inside so but let it out cuz sooner or l8ta u just gone start cryin and it might be l8ta on u start but u gone cry and cry and ur just gona wanna be alone 4 a second or 2 but stay strong Www@Answer-Health@Com
hang in there it will be o!.k!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I'm really sorry your dad has to have that kind of surgery!. But I think you should just let it all out!. I'm not saying you have to cry, but I think you should talk about it all with your mom, maybe even your dad!. Think about what your parents must be going through also; this is a scary time for your whole family!. It can be difficult to face by yourself, but there are strength in numbers!. And don't even think you are a jerk!. You seem like a really caring person, and things like this can put a strain on anybody!. I hope everything turns out o!.k!. Www@Answer-Health@Com