Any ideas on how to help my boyfriend quit smoking weed?!
Question: Any ideas on how to help my boyfriend quit smoking weed!?
hes been smoking since he was in 6th grade hes 17 now
he brain dead and i really wanna help with quitting and he knows he
needs to keep but all he does i talk talk about it i wanna help but i dont know how people tell me hes not gonna change and this and that and i know what its like to live with a pothead my mom did for 12 years and its not easy i dont want that but i dont wanna break up with him cause of that we have been together for toooo long!.!.!.
so tell me what you think
and advice!(:Www@Answer-Health@Com
he brain dead and i really wanna help with quitting and he knows he
needs to keep but all he does i talk talk about it i wanna help but i dont know how people tell me hes not gonna change and this and that and i know what its like to live with a pothead my mom did for 12 years and its not easy i dont want that but i dont wanna break up with him cause of that we have been together for toooo long!.!.!.
so tell me what you think
and advice!(:Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Well how do i say this!.!.!.!. He ain't ganna stop unless he wants to!.!.!. you can give him an ultimatum choose between you or the weed, but he's still very young and he's ganna choose the weed sorry to say it!.!.!. I know because i married a pothead who started smoking when he was 13 and still does hes 25 going on 26, he tried to stop but he was just so angry all the time that he turned to worse drugs then weed!. If you think about it doctors do prescribe it to some patients but of chose those have cancer!. You can't change someone if they don't want to, it's just a matter if you can deal with it or not!. there are better people out there for you, and now i sound like some of my family, but girl you either stick with him and little by little you can get him to cut back it might take years but if you love him you can work through this!.!.!. he's addicted it's like a disease, and well that's all i have to say for now!. Good luck with your choice!. oh and by the way little by little i got my husband to cut back and he's not as bad as he used to be when i married him!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
get pregnant have a couple kids ,live poor!. that's what your gonna do!. Then complain that gov!. wont give more food stamps and stuff!. But it wont be your fault, because you were together so loooong!.!. break up with him!. If he quits and comes back then maybe, but i bet he wouldn`t do that to keep you!. Hope you enjoy being poor your whole life!. But you will still be able to visit your girl friends, at their nice houses!. They might even give you their old clothes to wear!. Check out some psychology books about women that are attracted to weak ,damaged men, you may have problem yourself!., good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
if your boyfriend dont wont to come off weed dont make him he has to come off it in his own time!. be there for him love him care for him try and expline how u feeling!. try taken his mind off it!. go and do something u like llike swiming!.
good luck dont make him becouse he wont come off it he got to wont to come off the wee so good luck take care Www@Answer-Health@Com
good luck dont make him becouse he wont come off it he got to wont to come off the wee so good luck take care Www@Answer-Health@Com
He has to really want to do it for himself first!. It is obviously interferering in his life!. You may have to do an intervention or, leave him!. If you really love him at your age, I would try to leave him alone more often!. Do you know that neither of your brain funtions are mature yet!?
Good luck!
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Good luck!
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dumb him b/c since u have been with him for so long he must really love u so once he realizes what life is without u he will stop smoking weed cause he wants u back into his life!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.just make it clear why ur dumbing him when he isnt high say listen i wanted to help u stop but im done if ur not gonna stop smoking weed then im out of ur life nd LEAVE! he will realize weed is not worth losing u but if he doesnt then u know he loves weed more then u!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.so u should move on (if that happens) hope this helps bye!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I was in a relatinship with a girl who did the same thing!. I tried to help her!. At first she tried to help her self to but at the end she went back to it!. Is not easy!. It wont work is like addiction but you can try good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Go on a trip!.Somewhere where he can't get any more!. Find his weed when you are there and pee on it!.See what happens!. If he dries it out and smokes it anyway forget him and move on!.If he throws it away there's hope!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Keep giving him tootsie pops so he can have something to hold in his fingers and have his mouth occupied with sucking!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Firstly, he has to want to get off weed himself and has to help himself!. It's not going to work if he wants to keep doing it and your the one who is trying to get him to quit!. He doesn't have to quit cold turkey, just ease of it!. I'm suggesting he smokes everyday, so he should cut back the amount he has everyday, to maybe a few cones rather than a 50!. And then eventually only smoke it when he thinks it's necessary (at a party, a tad agitated or whatever his reasons are), then it will be a lot easier to finally quit!. But yes he is 17 and i guess he probably thinks you don't have to have a reason to smoke it!. Don't bug him or push him, and altermatem could work, but he may choose weed!.
Make him realise that he should ease of it soon, before it's too late and his mind starts to mess up!. It's good your only trying to get him off weed though, and not harsher drugs!. He's got his whole life ahead of him, support him or get support for him (maybe a councilor)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Make him realise that he should ease of it soon, before it's too late and his mind starts to mess up!. It's good your only trying to get him off weed though, and not harsher drugs!. He's got his whole life ahead of him, support him or get support for him (maybe a councilor)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com