I really need some help!?!
Question: I really need some help!!?
ok so im 16 and im a guy and i play basketball and baseball for my high school and i smoked a cigar like 3 months ago it was literally like 20 puffs then i realized how stupid i was and walked away!.!.!. now everytime i do something wrong i think its because of that!. like i know this sounds weird but i feel like i will lose feelings towards something like i love unc basketball but i feel like itll make me lose excitment towards it and yea this pretty weird but i i absolutley love chrismas time and stuff like that but i feel like im not the same good kid i was!.!.!. therefore i wont love it as much and stuff!. im pretty sure that it wont cause that for smoking a cigar for 20 puffs but idk it just sticks in the back of my mind all the time!. any advice to help me!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
just forgive yourself
it's no big deal
your still the same person
the cigar has came and gone!
it is not right for you, and you learned that
and everythings fine!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it's no big deal
your still the same person
the cigar has came and gone!
it is not right for you, and you learned that
and everythings fine!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think you are feeling guilty because you knew smoking wasn't the right thing for you to do!. Especially since you are an athlete!. You most likely did it out of curiosity or peer pressure!. Now, you are blaming this one incident for every thing you do that is wrong!. Your guilt feelings are preventing you from enjoying everything you enjoyed before!. Try putting it out of your mind and really get involved in the things you enjoy doing!. If this seems impossible, talk to your school counselor, favorite teacher, or your minister!. Good Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if your christian then, ask the lord for forgiveness!.
& you learned your lesson, hopefully!
so life has more to it, so don't hang on the small things!.
also tell your exsperience to other that might have peer pressure like you did!.
( remember if you have kids later in life, you can tell the exserpiences)
i'm younger than you!.!.!.!.!.!.so you have showed me something that no one else has) they all stay don't but, noone has acually done it!
welp,
that all i can give!.!.
----kaseylee =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
& you learned your lesson, hopefully!
so life has more to it, so don't hang on the small things!.
also tell your exsperience to other that might have peer pressure like you did!.
( remember if you have kids later in life, you can tell the exserpiences)
i'm younger than you!.!.!.!.!.!.so you have showed me something that no one else has) they all stay don't but, noone has acually done it!
welp,
that all i can give!.!.
----kaseylee =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to forget about what happened 3 months ago, it is in the past!. You learned a lesson, now you need to get on with your life!. Everyone tries something new at sometime in their life and then they move on!. That's what you have to do!. Forget it!. Remember what you learned from that lesson and forgive yourself!. Start looking forward to Christmas and anything else exciting in your life!. Leave the past in the past!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Guilt issues!?
Therapy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Therapy!.Www@Answer-Health@Com