I feel like killing myself...?!

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you arent alone. you have people that love you and that want you alive. you need to know that death isn’t an answer or and ending. It is just quitting on life, and really doesn’t make you or everybody that loves him feel any better like he thinks. Everything is temporary in life…well most things. Whatever he is going through will pass. It isn’t smart, or right, to end everything forever over something so short lived. be happy, live life like you should and disregard all the bad things once because you only have one life to live<3
i hope everything goes well for you .

you are way too over stressed find something to calm you down, dont worry about things you can not fix, and talk to someone about it that you can trust. talk to you mom tell her that if she loves you she should understand you and listen to you trust me all moms are there for you, you just have to find a way for her to understand and if it turns into a fight have someone that is not involved be a mediator pointing out things that are not fair or true. for more depth please ask me more.

That is sad but dont kill your self i dont know you but i bet u got a lot to live for so dont

I Was going to kill my self but my friends an cusins help me is not worth it it dont help really it dont ok i hope things get gooder

Sounds like a stressful time in your life. Don't let it get to you cos it happens to the best of us. And remember "Suicide is just a permanent answer to a temporary problem"


Also, your mom sounds like a *****.
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It sounds like your boyfriend isn't in a good situation, but you haven't been kicked out of your house - so I'm not sure why you're so concerned.

Don't do it!! try procrastination and maybe thing will be easy

Don't kill yourself. Honestly, what's that going to solve? Nothing. You'll just be dead, and everyone else will be in pain as a result of it, including your boyfriend who's already going through enough from the sounds of it.

You might hurt now, but you need to pull up yourself up by your bootstraps and push on through the pain. Instead of dwelling on things, try to figure out ways you can help your boyfriend. And don't listen to your mom; it's your life, not hers. You can date whoever the hell you want. Parents try to control you by using emotional manipulation and making you feel bad about yourself, but you have to ignore that crap. Just keep telling yourself you won't let her control you. It's your life, and you only get ONE. Don't cut it short just because other people make you feel bad or because you're going through a bit of a rough patch; screw other people. I mean it.

I used to be depressed all the time, and I tried to kill myself a couple of times, until I realised that I only get one life, problems will ALWAYS pass if you stick them out, and nobody controls me but me. This is your life, not hers or anyone else's. Fight for it. You're not a failure, and if she thinks you are, who cares what she thinks? Obviously she doesn't even respect you if she's going to say that, and if she won't respect you then she doesn't deserve your respect either. The only person whose opinion matters is yours.

And if you're having chest pains, go see a doctor. Chest pain should always be looked at by a doctor, because it could be something serious.

Personal experience.

Time will heal it whether your with him or not in the future.

I used to feel like that. I one time almost died in my sleep. Was having a nightmare about another heartbreaking situation. The person I loved left in my dream, then came back, and left (we were fighting and talking and all that drama). And when she was walking away fading into the distance I collapsed clutching my heart (extreme pain). I was crying too.

I woke up extremely slowly. Tears were rolling down my cheeks. My eyes opened soo slowly. My heartbeat was beating like twice every ten seconds. Everything was just so slow I remember it feeling like I almost passed away.

Anyways, you're gonna go through a lot of rough times. It's gonna be hard. And "Time heals all" will sound like complete bullshit at times. It might take years, but you'll see. It took me about 3 years to finally feel like my happy self again. It's been about 4 years and I still struggle with it sometimes but I have become sooo strong mentally.

You'll see, once you get through this you'll be able to get through anything life throws at you. And you'll consider yourself lucky to have been given the opportunity to learn. I see many people having their small dramas severely affect them, but I know a problem like that would barely phase me. Once you get through this you'll be able to take on anything, trust me.

Practicing meditation, go to the gym, or just run or swim or something. You gotta find something(s) that will not only pass the time but help you relieve stress. Something you like doing.

The rougher times come in waves. Just do your best to stay in the present moment. Taking whatever wave comes at whatever time in the moment.

Whatever you do, try not to remain stationary for too long. I had many plans that got thrown out the window when I was dealing with the struggle. Now I'm getting back in to them but I'm really far behind. It's imperative you learn how to let go and go with the flow. You save a spot for what's important to you in your heart, and keep moving forward. Master the struggle, don't let it ruin you.

Eventually I realized I was always reinforcing negative thoughts in my mind. And what you think is what you are. I realized I was making myself sad and negative and suicidal and lazy and unmotivated, etc. It's going to be extremely difficult, but do your best to stay positive. Listen to positive things, look at "negative" situations in a positive perspective, read positive things.

Go watch "The Peaceful Warrior". It's a good movie and just one of the many ways to help lift your spirit.. if you LET it.

It's hard to believe now, but you'll someday look back on this and just laugh. Not in a disrespectful way, but just at how chaotic things were and stuff. It's really hard to explain, like the feeling of love, but you'll see.