Why does it STILL hurt!?!
Question: Why does it STILL hurt!?
WHY do I still feel so heartbroken? And don't say anything like *This is why High School relationships are stupid* or anything like that because even though high school relationships may not be as serious our heartbreaks hurt just as much...
Answers:
That kind of stuff always feels horrible. It's almost like when someone when someone close to you dies.
But believe it or not, you do get over both of these. The best thing to do is keep your self busy with friends, other activities, work. Whatever. An idle mind will tend to wander back and obsess over things. Don't let it.
Beyond that, just like a physical wound, it simply takes time to heal. That's not something you want to hear at the beginning, but the pain will gradually fade and one day you'll look back on it and realize that the pain it caused is nothing more than a memory.
Been there, done that.
Oh, I'm a sophomore in highschool, and let me tell you, the many future break ups don't get any easier, but I know how bad the first one could hurt. Because I went through the exact same thing. He dumped me and I felt so hurt and crushed because that was my first "love" and I wanted it to last forever and for some reason, I was crazy enough to believe it would. I wanted to get revenge so bad, but I also wanted to get back together. Now, its a year and a half later and I'm doing fine. Don't worry, it didn't take that long to get over him. For me, it took about... 3-6 months honestly. I know it don't seem like it now, but things will get better. And soon, you will get over this break up. It just might take a little longer for some people. The best thing you can do now is surround yourself with friends and go crazy; putting your mind off him. Promise:)
Good luck!