Im SO HURT AND NEED HELP?!

Question: Im SO HURT AND NEED HELP?

Im 32 years old and I met this guy online that I really like and started falling for because we spent hours on the phone and I shared pieces of my life with him. We went out the first time and had a blast. The second time we went out, he held my hand during the movie and kissed me(french) goodnight. He then called me immediately right after to see what I was up to. The next day was fathers day and I knew he was spending time with his family and his son so I didnt want to bother him. The next day I woke up and realized that I had forgotten to wish him a happy fathers day and so when I got to work I sent him an email and how I can make it up to him. He then sent an email back and said its too late, already done. Well I thought he might be joking because his personality is like that. I then didnt hear from him all day on Monday so I called him monday night. He never called me back,(he usually does right away). Do you think he is just not that into me anymore or is he mad over the fact that I didnt wish him Happy Fathers day? I need to know whats going on because I really started falling for this guy, we have been talking every day for nearly a month and he even expressed to me how he wants us to hang out even more and more? Please give me some advice! I reallly like him alot.

Answers:

im not into dating yet...and i cant answer your question but i just want to say im so sorry for what happened and i hope you guys get back together and i wish the best to you to...im here to show support for you...good luck...best wishes...ps try stoping by his house and talking to him and if you dont know where he lives email him telling him what you feel and you didnt want to email him because you knew he needed to hang out with his family.apoligize for whatever you did wrong.

Sorry Wade,

Nobody is going to "Dump" someone because they forgot to tell them Happy Fathers Day! Especially since he is not your father! My point is, is that no one would even do this because you forgot to say Happy Birthday! There is another reason.

Went out only twice? Talked on the phone/emailed for hours? Sounds like you were far more into him after meeting, than him you. Sorry to sound harsh, just trying to say that maybe it is him, and he just doesn't want to be with you as you do him. This happens after actually meeting for the first or second time!

Sorry, but either find out what's really going on (Because it's not the Father's Day thing) or get over it and move on! But don't keep bothering him, and do not show up at his house unexpected. That's just rude, creepy and embarrassing to yourself!

Good luck, and take care!

Chances are if you talked as much as you said and were that "close" something as small as missing a phone call on fathers day shouldn't be a deal breaker. Personally from your story it seems like maybe he's just not that into you. He could be using this minute rift to break you up.

You were a little vague, were you actually dating? If I were in your shoes I would email him a sincere letter asking him what's going on and your status.

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