Was I wrong or was he just an *** hole?!


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Was I wrong or was he just an *** hole?

My fiance of five years, watched me survive a horrific car crash two days ago. One where I have been in a lot of pain since then. He has been having to take care of me pretty much since then. Today he needed to take me to the hospital at the advice of my lawyer for some injuries I had sustained but seemed to have worsened. On the way out of the hospital to get some food and come back and wait another 5 hours I ask him to let me drive ( I really wanted to get behind the wheel again because I already cringe everytime I get in the car, so I wanted to fight the fear before it became too unbearable) He gives me a pissy *** attitude and tells me know. I tell him okay. Remember this. Remember this moment, he says why, I say because I will get a new car and when I do I will remind you of this moment. He then proceeds to storm out of the hospital and walk quickly away from me ( I have been holding onto him as I walk, due to my injuries its painful to walk and stand and sit for long...

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2 weeks ago
periods of time. he then proceeds to give me the silent treatment as we walk towards his car he then proceeds to get in the car and start to drive he then (very violently )started to beat up his car and ends up breaking the rearview mirror in the process. In the past two days since he has had to care for me as I have not been able to do so for myself he has begun giving me this pissy *** attitude as if he can't stand to care for me while I am ill. This man is 30 years old and has kidney stones, everytime e has needed me to be there for him to help him with the kdney stones I have been there for him without a fault and I truly feel that now that it is his turn to return the favor he can't stand it and instead gives me an attitude as if I am beholden to him for caring for me during this time. Over the past two days when I have tried to discuss this with him he says it is both of us giving pissy attitudes to each other. But, I have no problem admitting I'm cantankerous--I lost my ...

2 weeks ago
car, use of my body, I can't go to work ( i love my job), and on top of all this I have to deal with a lawyer to get all of the things I need taken care of with this. I am the only one working so me missing days is not helping us. And on top of all this I have to deal with his attitude. HELP I am sick and tired of this ****!

2 weeks ago
to clarify we have been together for 5 years engaged for under a year ( he was waiting for me to finish school)


Answers:

He might not be the kind of guy who likes to take care of people. A lot of guys break up with their partners when something happens to her because they "just can't handle it".........




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