Why am i scared to sleep around?!
Question:
Why am i scared to sleep around?
i have a boyfriend but i sometimes get the urges to kiss and sleep with other guys. i love my boyfriend but these thoughts keep popping into my head. i have slept with guys other than my bf but for some strange reason, im actually scared to let a guy feel me in that kind of way.
is this a self esteem issue?
Answers:
Perhaps it's more a self preservation issue- seeing as each new partner represents a serious potential risk to your health. Or perhaps it is a self esteem issue, and you simply have learned you are worth a great deal more than your ability in the sack, and actually are wanting a little more from the relationship than just that. Of course you enjoy looking at the other fish in the sea, seeing as you haven't found the Mr. Right of your dreams just yet. Looking is nothing, thinking is nothing. All it says is that the current BF isn't it. If he were, this wouldn't be an issue because it wouldn't be happening. That's all it is. Nothing deeper or darker than that. No "issues" really, except that you are not with Mr. Right just yet.