I'm so desperate and overwhelmed, my house is disorganized and dirty, "I wa!

I'm so desperate and overwhelmed, my house is disorganized and dirty, "I was sick," how and where do I start

I was sick for a few months and my husband had to work over time to compensate for the loss of $. It is so bad that my husband put all the dirty dishes on the back yard lawn. Laundry is piled up. stuff is every where. Mail and unpaid billes are piled up on the coffie table, at least I think it is on it I havent found my coffie table yet! I'm so scared to look at the unpaid billes that it is giving me an enxiaty attack. The reason I know that there are unpaid bills is that every 15 minutes the call and ask for money I don't have. Obvious I don't have family or friends that could help. PLEASE I NEED HELP OR GOOD TIPS HOW I CAN GET BACK ON MY FEET

If you really have no one BUT yourself, than that is your only answer--you. 1 room at a time is the only way! It will be overwhelming, but start in 1 room, once that is finished you will have a small sigh of relief, then all you do is the same in the next room, & the next. bring a trash can with you from room to room. Start tossing what you do not need. If there is anyone to help, a neighbor, do you belong to a church, maybe there is a local organization that could help you. There may be children, teens who need community service hours for school or church. If you have been ill for quite some time, you honestly need help, so I would say call a local church. Think about joining, they are there to help. You dont have to become some big holy roller, dont think thats what i am pushing, just attend every sunday, if your health permits. They will help you. That is all I can think of if you have no family. I would first say family friends, or neighbors. Or contact your local hospital or health care provider, tell them you need help, maybe they can get you some or put you in the right direction where to look. Good luck & hope you are feeling better. Once you get through a room at a time, try to keep up with it. Make a weekly chore list, basic for your husband to try & keep up oin. Even you 1 room , your husband the other.