Question:
Ok who's side should I be on?
ok...my Best Bud was out of a job and she knew my husband was a manager for an Auto Shop, so she begs me to hook her up. I told her she couldn't take advantage because he's my husband and then I begged my husband to help her out. Anyhow, my husband pretty makes up a job for her and pays her more then what her experience is worth and the first week is pretty nice and peachy for her. During the week one of the service guys gets fired so she has to step her game up a little bit and help out more. She is now p*ssed off that she's doing more then her job description and is complaining to everyone that will listen about my husband bossing her around. I mean they're short handed and my husband is stuck at a desk and when she goes out to eat lunch, ya think she'd say hey, can I bring you back something? All the guys complain about her. She take 2 hour lunches and is always in the washeoom fixin her makeup... I'm so dissapointed.He wants to fire her. Do I tell her or let her get fired?
Answers:
she's using you. she may be causing conflict between you and your hubby. it's her responsibility to own up to this, do her job, and not to take advantage of you. if she can't do this, duh, she is not a friend.
If your the boss you tell her. If you're not the boss you let him take care of it. Doing anything that is not your job puts you more in the middle than you already are. It's her merits or lack of them that is causing the problems. Stay away or you can lose the friendship if it still means anything to you.
In my opinion just let her get fired. She sounds like a lousy worker and I'm pretty sure this isn't the first or last time she will get fired from a job... :)
Don't get involved.